Good women often have these characteristics, come and see if you have them?
Many people believe that people's destiny is predestined from birth, and no matter how hard they try, they can't change it. Although this statement sounds a little reasonable, it is not absolute, because some things can indeed change the result through acquired efforts and make one's life to a higher level, for example, we were born in a poor family, and we have no way to change the family factors, but we can have a better way out through our own diligent study.
Some people may argue that most of this kind of reversal of life happens to men, and the probability of it happening to women is very small. A large part of the reason for this is the woman's personality. After all, women are more likely to be pessimistic than men, and when they encounter problems, it is difficult for them to find solutions in a short time, so they let themselves fall into passivity.
It is precisely because of this that the saying "character determines fate" has emerged, and in the eyes of the older generation, whether a woman is lucky or not has a lot to do with their character. If a woman has all these characteristics, then she will not have a bad life in the future, what is going on?
There is great wisdom.
The so-called great wisdom, this is to be able to properly deal with various problems in life, women with great wisdom are especially good at pretending to be confused, can accurately grasp human nature. When they encounter more troublesome or unwilling to solve problems, they are good at pretending to be stupid to deal with them. Such women usually give people a feeling of being stupid, but this is not the case, it is just their outward appearance, in fact, they are full of wisdom deep down.
I believe that many people have heard the four words "wise and foolish", and with these four words to describe it, this kind of woman is simply too vivid, and they can remain silent at the right time. It does not argue with others, nor does it communicate too much with others, but can stand up at critical moments and make timely response policies. Such a woman can perform with ease, whether in the family or at work.
There is a great forgetfulness.
The main reason why I feel sad in life is because there are too many things to worry about. So where do these troubles come from? To put it bluntly, they all came up with their own ideas. There is such a sentence recorded in "The New Tang Dynasty Book: The Biography of Lu Xiangxian": "There is nothing in the world, and mediocre people disturb themselves", some things are not so bad, but they have to think about the situation very badly, so they let themselves fall into a predicament and cannot extricate themselves.
If you want to live a happier life, the easiest way is to learn to forget, by forgetting something unpleasant or hurtful to yourself, you can save yourself from the constraints of the shadow. This is also the reason why those women who have a big forgetfulness will live happier than others. Because they know how to forgive others as well as themselves, and keep a clean heart to enjoy the moment.
There is a big heart.
For women with big hearts, when they encounter problems and things, they usually adopt a more tolerant state to solve them, rather than allowing themselves to be trapped in some small things. Because they clearly know that these little things will eventually become the last straw that crushes the camel's back, and only by keeping a broad mind can they make themselves happier.