Life is like a journey, full of uncertainties, people will climb in a variety of positions, industries, and meet many colleagues and friends. They have different personalities, some are enthusiastic about helping others, which greatly promotes the progress of our work, and some may seem indifferent, but they always abide by the bottom line, do not envy others, do their duty, and never tell right and wrong. However, there are also some colleagues who are narrow-minded and prone to jealousy, trying to trample others under their feet, catch on to others' mistakes, and even use means to pull them into the water. Such a colleague is undoubtedly a disgusting "villain".
Here, I'm going to tell a true story that happened to me. The protagonist's name is Xiaoya, she works in a public institution, is diligent and hardworking, has outstanding ability, treats people sincerely, and has a good relationship with colleagues. Another colleague, Xiao Xi, graduated from the same school as Xiaoya, has the same working experience, and has a serious work attitude, but his words are sharp and competitive.
A few years later, the unit had a chance to be promoted, and after a strict assessment, Xiaoya obtained this valuable place by a narrow margin. Since then, Xiaoxi's attitude towards Xiaoya has changed dramatically, her words are full of sarcasm, and even deliberately stumbling up, which makes Xiaoya suffer a lot of hidden losses.
Xiaoxi not only isolated Xiaoya in food, but also made small moves on the issue of intern partners, which put Xiaoya in a predicament. The most excessive thing is that one of Xiaoya's important documents was lost and found by the leader, which had a negative impact on Xiaoya, but Xiaoxi remained silent about the matter.
Faced with such a situation, Xiaoya felt very painful and wanted to leave her job many times, but she was reluctant to give up this stable and well-paid job. So, when we meet a colleague like Xiaoya in the workplace, how to deal with it?
First of all, we should avoid contact with "villains" as much as possible. Xiaoya can consider changing her office and reducing her contact with Xiaoxi, so that she can avoid the other party frequently targeting her. At the same time, it is also necessary to let Xiaoxi understand that it is not feasible to use snacks to sow discord.
Secondly, we need to stay calm and not be easily distracted. No matter what Xiaoxi does, we must stay rational and not lose confidence or lose control of our emotions because of this.
Finally, we need to learn to protect ourselves. If Xiaoxi's behavior has seriously affected our work and life, we can report the situation to our superiors and seek solutions. At the same time, we must also learn to self-regulate, maintain a positive and optimistic attitude, and believe that we can overcome difficulties and achieve success.