"Honey, we're finally getting married!" I excitedly said to my fiancé, "We're going to start preparing for the wedding, and I can't wait to make a warm little family with you." "
"yes, I've been waiting for this day for a long time. He looked at me affectionately, "We want to lay a good foundation for the future family, buy a house of our own, and then decorate our ideal love nest together." "
I fantasize about the future: "We can make the living room warm and romantic, and the bedroom simple and elegant. I also want to plant some greenery on my balcony so that I can get fresh air every day. The kitchen has to be spacious and functional, because I have to make delicious meals for you with my own hands. "
He smiled knowingly: "That's right, together we will build a comfortable home and become the warmest haven for each other." "
In order to make our dream come true, we started preparing for the purchase of a house. When my parents found out, they offered to help us, which touched us.
"Mom and Dad, you've worked hard for us all your life, and now it's time to enjoy your family. "I took my mother's arm and my eyes were moist.
Mother said kindly, "You are our pride, and it is our happiness to share your worries." Buying a house is not a small amount, and with our support, you will be able to free up your hands to decorate your new home. "
My father also smiled and expressed his support: "You're welcome, our old couple will pay for the new home, you just have to carefully arrange it and live in the house you like in the future." "
I was deeply moved, and I felt that my future life was just around the corner.
With the support of our parents, we started looking for the property we wanted. Every weekend, we travel to all corners of the city to see new and second-hand homes.
"My dear, what do you think of this set? The community environment is good, and the room type is quite practical. "In a new development, I pointed to the renderings and said to my husband.
He shook his head: "But it's too far away from our unit, and it will be very inconvenient to commute to and from work." "
"What about this set, the location is good, and the value for money is also good. "I pointed to another second-hand house.
He frowned, and his tone was a little hesitant: "The second-hand house has been old for a long time, and I don't know what problems are hidden." I still hope to buy a brand new house and have no worries in the future. "
In this way, we looked at nearly 20 houses over and over again, and finally decided on a new house that had just been capped a month later.
On the day we got the keys to our new house, we happily walked into our "sky building" and began to survey the renovation budget.
"It's going to be an open kitchen, so we can talk to each other during meals. I pointed to a corner of the floor plan, and a warm picture came to mind.
"It's good, I also like the design, it makes the whole space feel more airy. He smiled.
"As for the bedroom, why not have a little garden on the veranda periphery? "I felt like I could see the lush landscape outside the window.
He nodded, a look of anticipation in his eyes, "I totally agree." However, the budget needs to be carefully considered, and we have to spend the limited funds on the knife edge to decorate the house in a practical and beautiful way. "
Looking at my husband's cautious and rational attitude, I felt a little disappointed. I thought that with the strong support of my parents, we would be able to decorate the love nest in our dreams bit by bit, but I didn't expect him to be so cautious.
"My dear, we've been working hard for years, and we've finally saved up enough for a down payment, and with the help of our parents, we're more than capable of making the house beautiful!" I tried to convince him, "We can get a professional designer and make every space perfect." "
I retorted a little angrily: "Isn't the original purpose of our purchase of a house in vain? We will still have to live in a humble environment, what is the difference between a new home and an old house we rent?"
My words seemed to annoy my husband, and his face sank and his tone became stern.
"You're naïve!" He frowned and said, "Don't you know how much it costs to renovate? The renovation of water and electricity alone costs tens of thousands of yuan, and the cost of other projects is even more frightening." We can't afford it now!"
I retorted with some grievances: "But my parents have already paid for the house, and we only need to be responsible for the decoration fee." Why can't you even afford to spend this little money?"
"Reluctant to spend?" He looked a little excited, "We are in debt now, and you actually say that I am reluctant to spend money? You must know that we will have to pay huge expenses for our children's education and life in the future!"
I was speechless by his words, and my heart was mixed. Of course, I also hope that my children will have a better life in the future, but I prefer that we can build a comfortable home for ourselves first. However, if I put too much pressure on my husband for this, I can't bear it.
It was in this ambivalent mood that we began a heated argument.
"What the hell do you think?" My husband confronted me, "It's irrational that you want to spend a lot of money on renovation when we already owe so much debt!"
"So what the hell did you buy the house for?" I also lost my mind, "Is it just to stay in for a while and then start worrying about the children? Why can't we build a perfect home for ourselves first?"
"The perfect home? Do you know how much it costs?" His voice gradually raised, "We have enough debts now, but you still want to be extravagant and wasteful!"
"I didn't waste it!" I almost cried and retorted, "I just want to make the house beautiful, what's wrong with that? Why are you so stingy?"
"Stingy?" His face turned pale, "I'm thinking about the future of my family, but you have to be criticized by your family!"
We were arguing like this, and the scene was quite tense at one point. I know he's doing it for our good, but I also hope he'll be more considerate of me. Just when we were at a stalemate, my parents arrived just in time to defuse the crisis.
"Kids, what's wrong with you?" The mother asked with concern, "Why did they start arguing before they were renovated?"
We have said a word to me, and we have told you all about the cause and effect. After hearing this, the father pondered for a moment and said, "You two have some truth. "
He turned to my husband: "It does cost a lot of money to renovate, but you can't decorate the house so simply. After all, this is your own home, and you will live here for many years to come. "
Then he looked at me again: "But you also have to be considerate of your husband's plight. He has to pay for the mortgage of the house and think about the future children, which is really stressful. So, we can't ask him to give it his all, but think twice. "
Under the persuasion of our parents, we gradually calmed down. I realized that I was a little too idealistic, and that my husband's concerns were understandable.
"I'm sorry, dear. I said to my husband sincerely, "I am too headstrong to understand your difficulties. Still, I wish I could have renovated the house beautifully, after all, this is an important stage in our lives. "
With the witness of our parents, we reached a consensus in this way. Although it can't be fulfilled for the time being, at least there is a good start. I believe that as long as we work together, we will one day have a warm nest of our own.
After this argument and compromise, I have a deeper understanding of marriage. Marriage is not achieved overnight, but requires both parties to understand and tolerate each other for a long time.
"Honey, we're finally starting to renovate. I said to my husband, "Although we may not live up to our expectations, I believe that as long as we work together, we will be able to make our home warm and comfortable." "
He nodded: "Yes, although the renovation is just the beginning, it symbolizes that we have officially started a new stage of life." From now on, we will fight side by side for a common goal. "
I would smile heartily: "That's right, we have to be considerate of each other's thoughts and go hand in hand in every detail of life." Home is our safe haven, and as long as we have each other's company, everywhere is paradise. "
In the process of renovation, I have a deeper understanding of the importance of family harmony. Even though the renovation workers come in and out every day and make a mess of the house, I feel extremely happy just by looking at my husband and smiling.
"Honey, what do you think of this color?" One day, I pointed to a few coloring samples and asked my husband, "I think this beige color looks more warm." "
He stepped forward and took a closer look, with a serious look on his face: "Well, I also think this color is good, but it's still too plain, why don't you add some warm colors?"
"Then this camel color!" I pointed to another color swatch, "It looks warmer and more textured." "
He smiled and nodded: "Very good, so be it." I believe that when all the renovation is completed, our home will be very warm. "
In this way, with the joint participation of our husband and wife, the new house was finally renovated. Although there were some twists and turns, in the end we got our wish and made our home warm and comfortable.
"Look, dear, this is our new home!" After the renovation workers were evacuated, I said happily to my husband.
The furniture is neatly furnished, the walls are painted in warm colours that we have hand-picked, and the floors are covered with solid wood floors. The small garden outside the balcony is lush and green. In the living room, a comfortable two-seater sofa is facing the TV, which is very comfortable.
The husband looked around, his eyes flashing with joy: "Yes, we finally have a home of our own! Although the process is tortuous, the result is satisfactory after all." "
I hugged him and whispered in his ear, "Thanks to your support and understanding." From now on, we will live together in this family and run the marriage together. "
He hugged me back with a happy smile on his face: "That's right, we've been together for so many years, and now we finally have our own nest." No matter what difficulties you face in the future, I will continue to support and love you. "
We snuggled up to each other, gazing at this brand new home, filled with anticipation for the future.
"Honey, I made your favorite braised pork, come and try it!" One day, I was standing in the open kitchen and shouting at my husband in the living room.
He quickly got up and walked to the table and sat down. Looking at the delicately plated dishes, he nodded approvingly: "That's good, this is the life we dream of! From now on, we can enjoy the world of two people in this home." "
I smiled and sat down across from him, feeling very happy: "Yes, we don't have to live in a rental house anymore, and we don't have to be constrained by others anymore." This is our own kingdom, and we can live our lives our own way. "
After dinner, we looked at each other and laughed, and then you and I snuggled up on the couch and watched TV. The room was warm, and we were close to each other, feeling the temperature of each other's bodies. Except for the sound of the program on the TV, the whole world is quiet, quiet and happy.
It was at this moment that I really felt the meaning of marriage. It is not the extravagant luxury mansion that can bring happiness, but the companionship and dependence of each other. As long as the husband and wife are in love, even the simplest life can be turned into family happiness.
I believe that with this new beginning, we will be able to live happily in this family. Although there are still many challenges waiting for us in the future, as long as we work together and support each other, there is nothing that cannot be overcome. I look forward to the day when we grow old, we can sit next to our husbands, look back on these eventful years, and savor the bits and pieces of life.