【Biography】
Tang Guoqiang, born in Shanghai on May 4, 1952, is a famous actor. In 1975, he was admitted to Bayi Film Studio and has been engaged in the actor industry for nearly 50 years. He has starred in many revolutionary film and television dramas such as "Honghu Red Guards" and "Red Ridge", and is known as a "great man professional". He has won the Best Actor Award at the Hundred Flowers Award three times. In 1993, he married the actor Zhuangli of Bayi Film Studio, and the two had three sons.
Tang Guoqiang has shown outstanding acting talent since he was a child, and after being admitted to Bayi Film Factory in 1975, he quickly became a smash hit young actor with his handsome appearance and superb acting skills. He starred in revolutionary film and television dramas such as "Honghu Red Guards" and "Red Ridge", which were widely loved by the audience and were known as the "flower of the drama".
However, Tang Guoqiang's family life is cloudy. In 1979, he met Sun Tao, who was a military doctor in the army at the time, and the two fell in love and became husband and wife. It's a pity that the good times didn't last long, and a few years later, Tang Guoqiang began to cheat and had an extramarital affair with an actor from Bayi Film Studio.
On Chinese New Year's Eve in 1990, tragedy struck suddenly. Unable to bear the huge blow, Sun Tao, who was abandoned, was determined to hang himself at home at the age of 35. In her suicide note, she denounced Tang Guoqiang as the "culprit", which made her suffer both mental and physical damage.
[The supremacy of interests attracts criticism]
Sun Tao's death undoubtedly gave Tang Guoqiang a heavy spiritual blow. But just 4 months after Sun Tao's death, Tang Guoqiang married his new love Zhuangli Lightning, who was 12 years younger, causing an uproar in public opinion. In 1997, Zhuangli gave birth to a son Tang Yinghan for Tang Guoqiang, but was diagnosed with congenital severe visual disability, which made Tang Guoqiang feel guilty.
In order to provide his son with a better life and medical conditions, Tang Guoqiang began to make money desperately. He no longer cares about his reputation as before, he frantically took on various commercial advertisements, and even endorsed some fake and shoddy products, and was labeled by the society as "pretending to be a ghost" and "making money".
There are even more public accusations that Tang Guoqiang left his wife and children in the United States for a long time in order to save money, while he worked hard in China to earn extra money. He was considered to be "flattering to foreigners", "family discord", and "debauchery". In addition, Tang Guoqiang has made a lot of statements outside the world in recent years, and has tried to compare himself with the great men of history many times, and has been criticized for "not guaranteeing the late season".
In the face of doubts from the outside world, Tang Guoqiang defended that everything is for the sake of a better living environment for his children. He revealed that his eldest son Tang Yinghan was once mentally depressed and his eyesight was gradually lost, how should he deal with himself as a father. He revealed that his eldest son, Tang Yinghan, had suffered from congenital visual impairment since he was a child, and was once mentally depressed and depressed. As a father, he was powerless to change his son's genetic defects, so he could only do his best to make money and give him the best education and medical resources.
"When our family moved to the United States, it was so that Yinghan could receive advanced treatment and at the same time give him a good environment to grow up in. But our family has been separated for a long time, my wife and children are in the United States, and I am working hard in China to make money, which really brings trouble to family life. Tang Guoqiang said sincerely, "But I was forced to do this, my son's illness is ruthless and unjust, and I have no choice." "
Tang Guoqiang also said that in his old age, his only hope is to see his sons happy and healthy. "When people reach their old age, they find that no amount of money can buy family affection. I had to do my best to make sure my sons were carefree. He confessed to his assistant that he couldn't sleep at night, tormented by regret and guilt in his conscience.
According to the analysis of industry insiders, Tang Guoqiang pursued career achievements all his life, but finally lost a happy family, which is a lesson. "I realized the preciousness of family affection too late, and even repentance now will not help. His self-proclaimed and pretentious behavior is nothing more than a silent wail of inner wounds. "
【The Way Back After Redemption Through Hardships】
Today, Tang Guoqiang, who is past his prime, has fallen from the peak of the storm to the trough of his life. He had to face the cruelty of old age: his wife was a stranger to him, his two young sons were working hard in the United States, and his visually impaired eldest son, Tang Yinghan, became the biggest pain in his life.
In order to win the trust and love of his family, in recent years, Tang Guoqiang has begun to deliberately repair his image outside. He has less of the pompous demeanor of the past, and more of an old man and compassion, and is humble and polite. He often humbled himself in public, and called on his friends in society to forgive him for his impulsiveness and recklessness when he was young.
What's even more touching is that Tang Guoqiang gradually quit the bad habit of relying on money and fame to maintain his life. He began to work diligently, and in addition to his income to maintain a basic life, all his savings were used for the medical expenses of his eldest son. Sometimes, in order to save money, he even chooses to be treated in a hospital in China.
In addition, Tang Guoqiang also took the initiative to participate in some charity activities, hoping to bring hope and care to more disabled people through his influence. Industry insiders applauded it and praised Tang Guoqiang for "finally getting lost after hesitating in his later years".
Life is like a burning fire, whether it can be rekindled depends on the campfire. After going through hardships and hardships, Tang Guoqiang finally understood the value of family affection. Today, he is humble and steady in his behavior, cautious in his life, and is redeeming the trust of his family and the respect of society little by little.
Facing the finish line of his life, he is full of expectations to be reunited with his wife and children and spend his old age together. I also pray that one day the eyes of the eldest son Yinghan will be completely healed and see the light again. The road of life is long, and I hope Tang Guoqiang has the courage to persist and pursue the other side of happiness.
Epilogue:
Time is like a song, and life is also a big drama. Tang Guoqiang's twists and turns in the drama of family and country life have brought us too much thrilling and empathy.
from the young actor of the "Flower of the Drama" with infinite scenery, to being ridiculed for losing his time in the evening; From being admired by thousands of people at the peak of his career, to being broken and imprisoned. Tang Guoqiang's life has been involved in too many strange human natures, and for ordinary people, his experience is like a thrilling twist and turn.
We have seen his youthful vigor and complacency, his middle-aged lust and deviance, and his lonely hesitation and awakening of his inner conscience in his later years. From the young hero in "Honghu Red Guards" to the tired old man who is now redeeming his son, Tang Guoqiang has used his life to interpret the twists and turns and complexity of human nature.
His story shows us that fame, fortune, status and wealth are not the whole of life, and family affection and conscience are the most important places in the soul. When a person is carried away by the temptations and desires of reality, he will do something hurtful and unreasonable, and in the end, he will not escape self-condemnation and conscience torture.
Yes, Tang Guoqiang made mistakes, but he was not useless. Although he was penniless in his later years, he regained his cherishment of family affection and the simplicity of his heart. The simple and peaceful life of his old age is the price of his redemption to make up for the mistakes he made when he was young and vigorous.
Life is a long practice, and no one can go all the way, and it is bound to go through twists and turns. What matters is whether we have the courage to redeem ourselves and seek inner peace when we fall from the glory of the past. Tang Guoqiang gave us such an answer with his own story.
So, let's draw some life philosophy from his rough life. Don't let the fame and fortune dazzle the truth, and don't let the dark face obscure the light of the heart. Maintaining kindness and simplicity and embracing the world with a tolerant and broad heart is the only way to the other side of happiness.