In the craze of Douyin, a video provoked deep thought. The blogger whispered in the video: "In middle age, do you feel that death is still out of reach? However, just yesterday, I said goodbye to a best friend from college......" Recalling the bits and pieces with her, the two of them sang Liu Ruoying's "Later" together in KTV, and the song was full of youthful memories. But in the blink of an eye, it was at the funeral that she witnessed the moment when she was pushed into cremation, and the cry of her deceased mother was heart-wrenching.
The blogger experienced the heaviness of life and death at that moment, but then, the excitement in the WeChat group made her feel emotional. The solemnity of the funeral and the hustle and bustle of the WeChat group seem to be two parallel worlds. She realizes that in the eyes of others, life and death may be just a brief episode in life.
The messages under this video poured in like a tide, and the emotions of netizens seemed to be a resonance. We've all had the experience of thinking that certain moments will be remembered, but in the eyes of others, maybe they're just a passing moment. Those who really care about us and accompany us are often those family members who pay silently.
When we were young, we may have pursued the prosperity and excitement on the surface, but as the years have passed, we have gradually understood that true happiness lies in inner peace and satisfaction. Relationships that require pandering and flattery may not be worth the effort. We should spend our time with our families, improving ourselves, and enjoying the beauty of life.
Life is like a movie, and middle age may be the turning point. We need to learn to focus, to learn to let go of things that don't make sense. Only in this way can we move forward better and find the path to happiness that truly belongs to us.