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Hello dear friends! Recently, there is a topic that has spread quite hotly -- why do young people nowadays prefer to have daughters rather than sons? In this world, do we want to turn the old concept of "preference for sons over daughters" upside down?
Some of the real experiences shared by netizens below may give us some inspiration and insights
That's right, when you give birth to a boy, you will prepare a car and a house for him, and if you give birth to a daughter, you don't have to worry about anything, just wait for her to get married. This is the biggest initial inequality between men and women. The landlord is great, learn from you, and hope that more and more daughters in the world will have mothers like you.
I agree with it, many people around me are, having a son means working hard to save money to buy a house for him and marry a daughter-in-law, and having two or three sons is too hard and miserable, so you don't have to worry about these worries when you have a daughter. My ex said that if you have a daughter, you don't have to work hard to save money to buy a house, but I said that no matter what my son or daughter, I will give him what I have, and I will not treat any of them poorly because of gender. So, equality, thinking that you are light.
All the favor was given to the daughter, and all the house and property were given to the son [covering his face]
That's right, the only child gave birth to a daughter and did not plan to have a second child, and he was annoyed that those who gave birth to a daughter and stepped on others to give birth to a son said that they had to buy a house and a car to prepare a bride price to bring their grandchildren, which was too bitter to give birth to a daughter. Isn't this a patriarchal preference in disguise? Or why should you be a father and mother and contribute money and efforts, and if you are a daughter, everything will be free? If you really love your daughter, you should work hard and make money, let your daughter receive a good education, and provide a good material life, so that in the future, it is better for your daughter to have a set of pre-marital rooms and dowry money from her parents when she gets married? In the final analysis, it is still the old thinking of patriarchy, but there is no man to be heavy
Violence is not taken into account. The main thing is that boys can't make money, and few of them have a good life. I'm talking about parents having a bad day...... There aren't a few parents who are doing well. People say, you just need to raise it well! Yes! The key is not easy to raise children, and it is too difficult to raise a boy who has a good child, EQ, IQ, and earning ability online! Ordinary family, if you raise an ordinary girl, there is a high probability that you will be grateful to Dade. You raise an ordinary son and try it. Gnawing you didn't negotiate. The daughter-in-law said, "Who made your son incapable, and what does it matter if you don't take care of the children and don't pay for it?" The customs force you to do nothing. If you want to save face, you have to squeeze out the ability to help him. [covers face]
Your husband's so-called liking for his daughter, is the premise of having a son in the second child, and the reason why he wants a daughter is also altruistic, so he can't study deeply, and only after being a woman giving birth to a child can he deeply understand the difficulty of a woman, and this time does not empathize at all, don't expect the patriarchal society of 5000 years of feudal society to truly respect women and equality between men and women
The man's parents require equality between men and women, and they can't get x to move in, otherwise the house will not be named, but the man requires the woman to have a job, and to give birth to a baby and take the baby to do housework. Is this interesting? Both sides are victims and illiterate?
Yesterday after work in the elevator, a man and his colleague said, my wife gave birth to a daughter for the first time, and his colleague said that it was very good, so there is no pressure to have a second child, both men and women. The man said, no, the second child is a daughter, my mother will definitely want her to give birth to a third child, I am a third-generation single lineage, and our family still has four sets of demolition houses to inherit for our son. Originally, there was chatter in the elevator, but then there was silence.
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