The trend of extinction is inevitable, and if no change is made in time, these three types of families will be an important group, and their children may be the last generation! The mainland is a country with a strong sense of family tradition, and everyone who comes to this world hopes to have their own offspring.
The extinction was regarded by our ancestors as the most vicious curse on man, so the old man hated the person who said it. As the name suggests, this family has no children and grandchildren of their own, and it is unacceptable to think that the children in a family are unwilling to get married!
Twenty or thirty years ago, as long as you could get married and start a family, even if the family conditions were poor, you still had to have children, the purpose was to have a person to rely on when you were old, so that the family could have successors. It is a pity that even if our material conditions are sufficient, the gap between the rich and the poor is constantly widening, it is no exaggeration to say that the rich have endless delicacies from the mountains and seas, and the poor can only be dried cabbage and radish, this gap brings great pressure to the psychology of young people, and they are afraid that they will not be able to give each other happiness when they get married, and then go on like this!
Some young people are really going to die, and they may be the last generation of the family. In the past, the purpose of marriage was only for men and women to fall in love, and to form a happy family, and relatives and friends would send blessings. Now when it comes to most of the things in marriage, many unexpected things often happen, and even some of them attract constant scolding, bringing irreparable consequences to the family, so let's take a look at what situations the children of the family will become the last generation of the family?
First of all, the first is a family where parents often have conflicts, families that never ask about their children, some are families with Dink thoughts, if a family can't understand each other, they can't tolerate each other's faults, especially if the husband and wife don't learn to accommodate each other, they leave scars in the hearts of the children, and the children can't feel the warmth of the family at all. There is a couple in our village, with a son and a daughter, when they were young, they always quarreled for the sake of raising children, and they almost didn't care about the children, and could only be done by the elderly in the family.
Although their children are now married, they are nearly 40 years old and have not yet given birth, and they rarely have contact with people, but yesterday when his son passed by my door, I chatted with her and his son, and his son said that he did not want to have children after discussing with his wife, and felt that having children was a burden. Speaking of his sister, he also has the same thoughts, they are all deeply influenced by Dink's thoughts, just like many celebrities, even if they have more money, they are very resistant to getting married and having children, and I don't know if they will regret their original decision when they are old, this approach is actually contrary to the traditional family view, which is the most undesirable idea.
The second type is a family that can't afford to buy a house, which mother-in-law doesn't want her daughter to marry into a family with a house, and has her own house in order to run a family well, and having a house is like having a home. My uncle's son is in his 30s, and his girlfriend has seen him bring back many times, saying that he is going to register his marriage before the year, but he didn't see his girlfriend back for the New Year this year, I asked my uncle curiously, and he was embarrassed to tell me. Just because of a suite, I don't know how many families have suffered, but sure enough, there is still money and a house to do things! When you already have these conditions, when you go on a blind date, you are not far from success.
The third type is a family with a very low income, the income of their parents is very low, if their children do not work hard to change the status quo of the family, or live with a passable mentality, think about the usual can't even support themselves, and the children born still need their parents to help you raise. Now that the cost of marriage is so high, some families simply cannot afford to marry with this kind of money, who wants their daughter to marry into such a family and suffer? How many people are still willing to share the weal and sorrow with you?
Everyone chooses to marry into a wealthy family to enjoy happiness. However, from now on, we will change the thinking of our children and maintain family relationships together, and as long as we work hard in a good direction, we will definitely be able to live a happy life in the future. The children of the above three families are likely to be the last generation, do you agree with me?
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