Friends, have you ever thought about such a question? What would it be like to marry someone who is particularly familiar to you? Is it as bland and tasteless as boiled water, or is it like eating a surprise cake, full of accidents and sweetness? Haha, don't worry, don't worry, little brother is here to talk to you, so that your ears will stand up and your hearts will itch!
There is such a netizen, named Xiaobai, everyone knows him, right? But one day, he suddenly threw a bombshell in the group: "You say, marrying someone who is particularly familiar with you, isn't it like touching your right hand with your left hand, you don't feel anything?" As soon as these words came out, the group immediately exploded, and everyone began to discuss.
At this moment, a usually muffled little friend "little love expert" suddenly appeared. He smiled and said, "Xiaobai, you have an interesting question. Actually, my current wife and I have been good friends for many years, and we got married not long ago. ”
"Huh, are you two married?" The friends in the group were stunned and expressed their disbelief.
"Little Love Expert" continued: "yes, I think it's amazing too. Before getting married, I also hesitated, after all, we are too familiar, we feel like brothers and sisters, where are we like husband and wife? However, when we really entered the palace of marriage, I found that this sense of familiarity is actually a deep tacit understanding and trust. ”
He paused, and then said, "Think about it, we know each other's preferences and habits, and even with a look or a movement, we can understand each other's minds. It's a really amazing feeling. Moreover, there are no constraints and pretenses between us, and it feels very natural and comfortable, as if we were wearing a tailor-made dress. ”
Hearing this, the friends in the group began to be curious, and they asked the "little love expert" more details about his married life. And the "little love expert" is not hidden, he generously shared the bits and pieces of their experiences together.
"After we got married, life didn't really change much," he said. It's still the same as before, shopping together, watching movies together, and playing games together. However, there is an extra responsibility and commitment between us, which makes us cherish each other even more. And together, we plan for the future, such as when to have children, where to travel, and so on. These programs give us more motivation to work hard and create a better life. ”
He also said: "In fact, marriage is not only passion and romance, but more of a kind of companionship and companionship in the ordinary. Marrying someone you know may be less surprising and exciting, but it is more stable and warm. I feel like that's the kind of happiness I want. ”
After listening to the story of "Little Love Expert", the friends in the group fell into deep thought. They began to re-examine their views on marriage and began to wonder if they could find that happiness of their own.
Someone said: "It seems that it is not bad to marry someone you know, at least you know each other, and there will not be too much friction and quarrels." ”
Someone else said, "Yes, I also think that marriage should be based on mutual understanding and trust." Only in this way can we go further. ”
Of course, there are also people who are worried: "But will marrying someone who knows you too well lack the novelty, and will life become boring?"
Regarding these concerns, the "little love expert" also gave his own opinion: "Actually, freshness is not a necessary condition for marriage. And, even if you're already familiar with each other, you can try new things together and create new memories. It is important that you cherish each other and manage the relationship with your heart. ”
After listening to the words of the "little love expert", the friends in the group said that they benefited a lot. They begin to understand that marriage is not a simple matter and requires the joint efforts and dedication of both parties. And marrying someone you know may be a more secure and reliable option.
So, what does it feel like to marry someone you know? Is it as plain as water, or is there something else? Perhaps, everyone has their own answer in their hearts. But no matter what, we should cherish the person around us and manage a beautiful relationship with our hearts.
In fact, marriage is simple and complicated. The key is to see how both sides view and deal with it. Marrying someone you know may be less passionate and romantic, but you have more understanding and trust. This kind of trust and understanding cannot be replaced by any novelty.
So, friends, if you have that familiar person around you, you might as well try to get to know him/her better and see if it is possible to enter the palace of marriage. After all, happiness is the ultimate goal!
Well, that's all for the story! I wonder if you have a new understanding of marrying a familiar person after listening to this story? If you have anything else you want to talk about, please leave a message in the comment area! Remember, everyone has their own views and experiences on love, let's share and communicate together!
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