Recently, at the ticket gate of the high-speed rail station in Hangzhou, a young mother, because she couldn't catch the high-speed rail, suddenly broke down emotionally, yelled at the child at the ticket gate, blamed the child, scared the child at a loss, and was scolded and cried by the mother.
A mother's emotional stability is crucial to the growth of her child!
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In the video, the mother's helpless and hopeless cry suffocated the listener, and the child's helplessness was even more distressing.
The incident happened at Hangzhou East Railway Station, and the high-speed rail from Hangzhou East Railway Station to Shanghai should not be too frequent. Even if you miss it, you can change it right away. He broke down and cried at the ticket gate, and slapped the ticket gate equipment with his hand, venting his emotions and blaming the child, and passing on the fault of the delay to the child, saying that the child was harmed and scolded the child.
Search for tickets from Hangzhou East Railway Station to Shanghai Hongqiao Station, a few minutes a shift, why do you drive yourself crazy?
Some people say: It's really not easy for adults to take children to catch a car, especially a person, and everyone who is a mother understands.
I am also a mother, and my children used to take their children from south to north in the car when they were young.
At that time, whether it was a long distance or a short distance, whether it was a trip or a family visit, whether it was a passenger car, a train or a plane, travel was a thing full of exploration and interest for children.
Who has not encountered setbacks, has not experienced exhaustion, has not carried the pressure of not being able to sleep in the dark, but these are all suffered by adults themselves, and children choose you to be their mother, not to become your emotional container.
Although there are many netizens who empathize with this mother, I can't empathize.
Looking back on the 18 years I have been with my children, I have also had an emotional breakdown, crying while flushing in the bathroom, and I can't help myself. But when the emotions calm down and wash your face out, you are still a good mother in the eyes of your children, and you are still a parent that your children can trust and rely on.
A netizen in the comment area said that the child is blamed when the child is next to him, the husband is blamed when the husband is next to him, and the friend is blamed on the friend, and some people are such a character.
This may seem a bit harsh, but it is not unreasonable when examined in detail.
It's just a miscarriage, in the long river of human growth. In fact, he can be completely unmentioned, what kind of mood can collapse to blame his daughter, who is only a few years old.
I also think the child is really pitiful. Netizens said that I seemed to see myself, and I really could choose my parents.
It has been said that "a happy childhood can heal a lifetime, and an unhappy childhood must be cured for a lifetime".
I feel very empathetic to this sentence. In my last article about domestic violence, I also mentioned my childhood, when I saw my father abusing my father and my mother almost every day. And then I thought, why is he my dad in the first place? If I could really choose my parents...
Parents' personalities and attitudes can have a profound impact on a child's life. And we can't choose our own origin, and we can't take the initiative to choose our parents, if the pain of childhood is destined to be burdened for a lifetime.
So I really can't empathize with the mother in the video, to put it mildly, it's nothing more than a giant baby mother.
Although I also know that she may have been through a lot, and that missing a ride may be the last straw that crushes her, and that she can cry or break down, but she scolds her children, and all her emotions are not worthy of sympathy.
The heated discussion among netizens shows that most of those who empathize with mothers consider problems from the perspective of mothers.
Mothers who complain about all kinds of commotion before their children go out should think about why some children are full of curiosity and happiness when they go out, while some children are indifferent to going out, and even all kinds of commotion. Mom usually guides a little more and lets the child have a desire to explore all the unknowns, so will there be less of all kinds of chickens and dogs?
Every woman can empathize with the difficulty of raising children, as well as the anxiety of facing various sudden situations.
I think emotionally stable mothers will have a good deal after the arrival of various situations, that is the main thing, miss this bus, although very anxious, but can say to the child: we can stay here for a while longer, mom can even take you outside the station, eat something delicious, we wait for the next bus, so that the child is also happy, their mood is also smooth.
On the importance of emotional stability. When encountering a mother who is either beaten or scolded, the growth process is so difficult for the child.
It's just that you miss a train, you miss a train, it's good to change your ticket, such a simple thing has to cause psychological trauma to children, and adults vent their negative emotions to children, which is really irresponsible.
Few children who go out of the house are completely ignorant, and if the children are really completely ignorant, they can't blame the children, and parents should think about it.
Write at the end: Whose life is not a piece of chicken feathers? Since you have chosen to enter the siege, you must have the courage to bear the consequences.
Mom is not superhuman, mom can't do everything, mom can also collapse. Because the identity is "mother", there is no reason to lose your temper without scruples.
The happiness of the marriage or the unbearable marriage. It is not an excuse for emotions to be passed on to the child, since you have chosen to be a mother, since you have chosen to be a mother, if you can't give the child the best material, at least give the child the best emotion.
Encourage all mothers in the world!!
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