In a relationship, self-touching is the most important thing to avoid.
Don't be sentimental, the other person doesn't really love you that much. Don't hide in your own inner drama, eventually you will realize that it is just you deceiving yourself. It is advisable to cherish yourself and not have unrealistic expectations about love.
Many times, we can clearly tell the difference between loving and not loving. If a person of the opposite sex truly loves you, then they will definitely behave differently from everyone else, and the way they treat them will clearly show their emotional state. They will talk to you about things they won't say to others, or do things with you that they won't do to others. Feelings are a very delicate thing, and only through the communication and interaction between the two parties can we truly appreciate the meaning and value of it.
This means that you have an extremely important place in his heart.
If a person of the opposite sex has no interest in you, then he/she will definitely express it in some way so that you don't have to be amorous and bored with yourself. Conversely, if the opposite sex is interested in you, he/she will also give obvious signals. So don't over-read other people's meanings and just let things develop naturally.
Doing so will only increase the level of embarrassment between each other, and in the end, you may not even have the opportunity to be ordinary friends. We should be as friendly and humble as possible to avoid unnecessary misunderstandings and confusion.
One: perfunctory everywhere and ignore you
People who like you will definitely care about you very much and put you at the forefront of their hearts. Whatever you say, he will think hard and answer you seriously. He will not be perfunctory to you because he cares very much about your feelings and mood and has respect for you. It's a respect that comes from the heart, not a hurried courtesy respect. In conclusion, if someone likes you and is so sincere with you, then you should cherish it because such a person is really hard to find.
On the other hand, if someone doesn't have a crush on you, he will try to avoid you, and even if you take the initiative to talk to him and invite him out, he will always find some excuse to reject you.
The reason why he ignores you is because he doesn't care that much.
You might think that he might really have other things to attend to, but sorry, that couldn't happen.
Someone who really cares about you, even if they are busy, will find time to spend with you and reply to your messages. They worry that you're going to think too much, that you're going to feel upset. This focus translates into concrete actions that you can feel at all times.
If he doesn't care enough about you, then you will hardly have any value in his eyes. Does it really need to have anything to do with such people?
Two: Finding fault with you everywhere, always looking at you unpleasantly
We tend to develop feelings of liking and loving for someone because we are attracted.
Although in the eyes of the outside world, he may not be prominent, just an ordinary person. However, you know that there are many things about him that make you fall in love with him, and he is so attractive that you can't help but want to get closer. There is no need for a special appearance or background, only authentic charm and attraction can move people's hearts.
Sometimes, we love someone for no apparent reason. Perhaps, no matter how he replaced, there was no place that could take his place. You love him simply because he is who he is, a unique being in this world, and he gives you feelings that no one else can give.
In the same way, if someone says he likes you, but he keeps finding fault with you in his daily life, and even shows dissatisfaction with your words and actions, it means that he is not attracted to you.
He doesn't really love you.
Three: I will look for you when I need you, and I obviously treat you as a spare tire
If a person of the opposite sex is not interested in you, there will be an extremely obvious sign that he will only look for you when he is in need, and when he is not in need, no matter how you look for him, he will seem to have disappeared.
This shows that he only focuses on his own needs and feelings, and does not care about what you think.
Only people who see you as a spare tire will take up your resources like this.
He gives you some hope when you are in trouble, and He takes advantage of your feelings when you love Him unreservedly. At all times, he is like a destroyer, ruining your sincerity.
You often feel tired and have low self-esteem, and perhaps rightly so, because in his heart you have never been cherished. But don't be discouraged, you deserve to be respected and cared for. After all, you're also a very good person.
He never showed sincerity to you, so sorry.
We must always remember that love is not a one-sided effort, and blind pursuit cannot be equally rewarded.
Sincerity can be described as a precious treasure, if a person does not know how to cherish it, he should recycle it in time, and he cannot make himself cheap. Because pursuing affection with a humble attitude will only make people be despised. Cherish the sincerity, so that you can get the same affection.