In daily life or movie plots, we often see men following the convention of using clichés such as flowers, luxury cars or throwing money directly when pursuing women, trying to conquer each other with money. But this approach doesn't really move people, and more importantly, it lowers the ethics of values and relationships. We should strive to find special ways to express our emotions and show our true hearts, rather than being flattered and materially manipulated.
Frankly, this method is usually only suitable for women who have just entered society and lack life experience and goals.
If it is used on a middle-aged lady, I am afraid it will only attract her contempt. In her opinion, this method is too vulgar and tasteless. We should be more clever in choosing ways to express ourselves. After all, we all want to show taste and depth in our words to convey our thoughts and emotions more precisely.
For middle-aged women to conquer, men need to understand these two words: considerate. Money doesn't solve everything, care and consideration are more important.
One: Trying to conquer a middle-aged woman with money will only disappoint her
In the TV series "Perfect Companion", Lin Qingkun played a typical straight man who did not know much about women's needs and emotional cognition. He believes that happiness is to provide enough money for his wife and children, and to have enviable living conditions. The portrayal of this character highlights the cognitive gap and cognitive disharmony that still exists between men and women in today's society.
Wu Min couldn't feel her husband's love. She deeply felt that marriage should not be maintained by money, and money would not warm a woman's heart. It can't be a healthy relationship.
As a woman with a lot of experience, Wu Min's wish is not money, but her husband's ability to understand and care for her feelings.
This is always the case with women, for whom spiritual comfort is always more effective than monetary relief. In their world, the comfort of the mind is more valuable than the superficial material.
Women crave men who understand their needs and emotional needs, which are more important than their financial strength. A man can only conquer their hearts if he truly cares about women. Men should pay attention to the spiritual side of women, which is the key to truly winning their favor.
Two: Be considerate of the hard work of a middle-aged woman, and she will be grateful to you
Wu Min complained about her husband Lin Qingkun, and although their lives were carefree, Wu Min was not very moved. Although Lin Qingkun gave her and her son a worry-free life, she still had her own ideas.
Wu Min received Sun Lei's understanding and help, which touched her deeply. Sun Lei fully understands her hard work at home and will never despise her because she is a full-time wife. This sense of trust and respect makes Wu Min very relaxed and confident.
When Wu Min was lonely and helpless and needed help from others, Sun Lei always appeared in front of her as soon as possible, anxious about her needs, and gave thoughtful and considerate help. This kind of friendship of mutual support and care is very precious, bringing warmth and strength to people.
Obviously, Wu Min is very grateful for Sun Lei's help. Sun Lei was able to gain Wu Min's trust because he was very considerate of Wu Min's feelings and considerate.
In fact, middle-aged women do not pursue material things, they value men's thoughtfulness and understanding more than money. These women understand the true meaning of life, so they need emotional support and love.
Three: To conquer a middle-aged woman, it is more effective to use heart than to use gold
"Conquering a middle-aged woman with money is an alternative to not wanting to pay for a person in order to save worry and effort. However, middle-aged women are not newcomers, and they know how to really tell if a man is genuine. The material contribution of a man alone is not enough to conquer the hearts of middle-aged women. 」
For them, what is more important is whether the souls of two people are compatible, and they also want men to be able to understand and understand them.
Sometimes, people will show that they have given enough love to others, but they neglect to be considerate and understanding of their feelings. It's like he knows you don't like cherries, but he just buys you a big box without considering your feelings. True love should be a sign of mutual understanding and concern, not just one-sided giving.
This kind of dedication will only move him to himself, and he can't really stand in the perspective of a middle-aged woman and understand what she thinks and wants. Only by sincerely understanding a middle-aged woman can you win her heart and capture her true feelings. We need to care for middle-aged women with our hearts, and understand the various dilemmas and challenges they may face, rather than showing concern just for the sake of self-satisfaction. Only in this way can a sincere relationship be truly established.
As men, we don't need to have a realistic and snobbish view of all women. In fact, most women value our hearts more than our possessions, sincerity and sincerity over our wealth. We should feel comfortable loving and being loved, and cherish those women who are in touch with our hearts.
If there is only money and no feelings, two people will never be able to stay together for a long time.
Besides, some women are more financially powerful than men, and they may not care about your material possessions. If you think women are interested in you just for money, then maybe you should look at your property situation first.