Friends are vital partners in our lives, sharing joy and pain with us. They are indispensable pillars in our lives, and we need their companionship and support, both in good and difficult times. Let's cherish the friendship with our friends and create more wonderful memories together.
Friends don't always get along with each other like harmonious music.
When you give something to someone, you don't necessarily get the same amount in return, because some people who are considered friends may not see you as friends in the minds of others. This is a reality, and we have to accept it. So, when we give, we have to grasp our own perspective, don't always be so serious, and instead invest in people we really trust.
If someone treats you like this a lot, then he actually doesn't like you, stop naively thinking that he is your friend, and don't continue to associate with him.
One: Disrespecting your opinion
The most important thing between friends is to treat each other as equals. This is very important because only when we are equal can we build a true friendship.
You are two separate and equal individuals, and there is no question of who is superior or inferior, so your opinions should be taken seriously. Remember, no one is better or worse than the other. Therefore, please treat each other's opinions equally with mutual respect.
If your friend never respects your opinion, it means that he is not looking for a friend to communicate with on an equal footing, but only someone with whom he can go along. This relationship is not a true friendship of mutual respect and support. It is very important to pay attention to whether your friendship is equal and respectful so that a truly healthy friendship can be built.
He just sees you as his retinue and helper, and no matter how correct your opinion is, he never values and takes it on board.
With such friends, you are like a verdant leaf, adding color to the blooming red flowers. This kind of friend makes you feel relaxed and happy.
Without equal communication, it will be difficult for the relationship between the two to move forward. If friendship is full of mutual superiority and inferiority, it will only make people feel tired. We should get rid of these negative emotions in our communication. In this way, you can truly experience sincere and comfortable interactions.
Two: I often make fun of you
It's natural to be funny with friends, but it should hit the bottom line. If either party is uncomfortable with a joke, it is not funny, but hurtful. Please be cautious in your words and deeds, and use wisdom and humor to get along with friends and achieve harmony and friendship.
Some people think they have a good sense of humor, but in fact they are belittling others and trampling on their dignity. They use humor to hurt others in a sarcastic way. This kind of behavior is really not advisable, and we should respect and care for others' feelings. We should reject the use of negative humor and pay attention not only in words, but also in deeds.
True friends don't do that. If someone says mean things to you in such a humorous way, it actually shows that he doesn't respect you at all.
He thinks you lack the ability and courage to resist, and even thinks that your feelings are not worthy of attention. Therefore he laughs at you with impunity, without regard for your feelings.
What he seeks is not to make people happy, but to satisfy his evil mentality. Such a person is weak and deceitful, and he does not know how to take a proper place, and it is obviously not worth continuing to associate with him, after all, it is an unhealthy relationship.
Three: Break your promises with you
Friends should treat each other in good faith. If we truly value a friend, we will remember the promise we made to us.
If a person abandons his commitment to you, it shows that you are not important in his heart. What you think promises are just random words he makes.
Those who can't even keep their promises can imagine that they don't have many sincerity. They won't value you, they won't take you to heart, they will actually look down on you.
Because we don't see you as an important object, the promises we make between us are just a piece of paper that can be torn up without hesitation. When you associate with such a person, you will only get disappointment again and again, so you must choose your friends carefully.
Friends is a word with warm overtones, and we shouldn't use it to hurt each other. When choosing friends, you need to be cautious and sober, and you should not give yourself only on your own will. After all, only by being cautious in making friends can you avoid unnecessary harm.
He may not say all his inner thoughts, but he will certainly express them in action.
Don't pay too much attention to what duplicitous people say, it's more important to pay attention to their actions. If someone doesn't respect you, don't worry about them, because you have many cherished friends waiting to be discovered.
Remember, true friends are life's most precious treasure, and false friendships will only cost you and cause pain in your heart.