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01
Hayao Miyazaki said, don't rely on one person easily, it will become your habit, and when separation comes, you will not lose someone, but the pillar of your spirit.
So don't get too close to a person.
If you get too close, it's like teeth and tongue, there will inevitably be contradictions, and there will inevitably be estrangement.
Two people who have a bad relationship, there is no doubt that separation can ease each other's relationship and enhance each other's beauty in each other's minds.
If the relationship is good, but they get along with each other without scruples, no sense of proportion, and no sense of boundaries, the relationship will often fall into jeopardy.
In this life, whether there is fate or not, after all, he is just a passerby in life.
If you have to adapt to the loneliness you should adapt, know how to enjoy loneliness and enjoy freedom, then there will be no time for loneliness in life.
In fact, if you really care about someone, you will get along with each other in a gentleman's way, because you want the relationship to last longer.
02
Men and women should not get too close.
has a confidant, but he can't go beyond the rules.
Friends have the boundaries of friends, boyfriends have the boundaries of boyfriends, and they can only do their part in their own world.
Love is selfish, and if you see your girlfriend getting close to another man, you will be jealous.
It's not that I'm not generous enough, but because if a person is already famous, he should keep a proper distance from his male friends.
What is the role of a boyfriend? What is the role of a friend of the opposite sex?
I hope to measure it clearly in my heart, don't let go of things that shouldn't be released, and don't do things that shouldn't be done.
Men and women can work together, but not necessarily eat together, watch movies together, or go shopping together.
When the last bottom line was breached, the relationship was embarrassed.
Keeping an appropriate distance can make the relationship not awkward, and it can also make each other's other half not think too much, which is respect and fulfillment.
03
Between brothers and sisters, don't get too close.
Sometimes it's not as good as a long distance, although it's far away, but on important holidays, you will also make a phone call to say hello.
However, if you get too close and stretch your hand too long, you will take care of the other person's family affairs.
Do you think you're helping your brothers and sisters? Actually, life is lived by their husband and wife, and you can't care too much after all.
How should children be educated? How should life be lived? Maybe you have good intentions, but if you are stupid to take care of it, and you are a brother or sister, it will be annoying many times.
Everyone's habits are different, so there is no need to impose your own habits on others.
Siblings get too close, and kind reminders often turn into unkind.
In fact, if you get too close, your brothers and sisters will not have their own space and their own world, and they will feel very depressed after a long time.
Therefore, it is precisely the right thing to do not get too close to your siblings and keep an appropriate distance.
04
Some people say that he is my true friend, he is my true brother, she is my best friend, the two of us have nothing to talk about, and he knows everything about me.
However, one day, your private affairs are rumored by others, and you think that the other party betrayed you, but in fact, you betrayed yourself.
Getting too close is often a source of contradictions.
No matter what the other person does, no matter what the other person and other friends do, you will have a deep sense of possessiveness in your heart.
If the other party ignores you for a while, you will think too much, and there is only him in your world.
Such a relationship is not good.
It should be, he has his space, you also have your space, they are good friends with each other, and they will not have so many selfish intentions.
It's a friend, but it's not yours.
You have other friends, and I have other friends, but neither of them will easily intervene in each other's circles, because they are each other's circles.
That's what true friends are all about.
05
Actually, this is true of any relationship.
They can't get too close, not even the person next to the pillow.
Two people stick together every day, but sometimes you can't fit into each other's preferences, and you can't like them, so you complain coquettishly, and the more so, the more you push each other farther.
If you really love someone, give him freedom, let him have his own space, let him be himself, and you can be yourself.
The relationship between people is actually to help each other, and it is impossible for a person to succeed by his own strength, and he needs the help of others.
Being able to go further, to be able to go to higher places and see more of the scenery, that's because it's a team.
Win-win cooperation is the ultimate life.
You also need to know how not to interfere in other people's lives and not to interfere in other people's worlds.
Not getting too close to others is protecting others and protecting yourself.
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