Text: Marriage counselor Liu Jie
In love, what women want to know most is how much men love themselves.
No matter what age they are, women always put "love or not" in the first place. This is a woman's persistence, and it is also her expectation of love.
In fact, if you want to judge whether a man loves you or not, we have to consider it comprehensively. In addition to listening to what comes out of his mouth, we also need to look at those practical actions, what is good for you, and what you give.
Sometimes, men will use some special endearing names for you. Maybe it's cute and playful, or maybe it's affectionate and romantic.
But no matter what kind of nickname it is, it actually contains a man's deep love for you.
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The cherishing and care in "baby".
If a man calls you "baby", then in his heart, you are undoubtedly his most precious existence.
The title is full of tenderness and sweetness, like treating a fragile treasure.
He wants you to feel his love and make you feel safe in his world.
The title "baby", of course, also reveals his sense of responsibility to you.
Because he knows that once he calls you "baby", it means that he has taken on the responsibility of taking care of you and protecting you.
This sense of responsibility is the deepest expression of a man's love for a woman.
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Pampering and recognition in "dear".
The title of "dear" is not only a kind of pampering, but also a kind of recognition.
When a man calls you "dear", it means that he has regarded you as an indispensable part of his life, and has identified you in his heart.
He is willing to spoil you and is willing to put you in his heart. You are an extremely important existence in his heart, and you are a person worthy of his love for him.
In this title, it is also his trust and dependence on you.
Because he understands that only in front of you can he completely relax himself and be his truest self.
This sense of trust is the most heartwarming part of love.
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The promise and future behind the "wife".
If a man has started to call you "wife", then this is not just a simple term of endearment, but a commitment to you.
There is no need to tempt again, because in his heart, you are already the one with whom he will spend his life.
This title is not only an affirmation, but also an expectation and longing for the future, and it is also his firm choice and deep love for you.
The title "wife" means that he has treated you as a family member, not just a lover.
He is willing to share the joys, sorrows and sorrows of life with you, and is willing to become a family with you and share the ups and downs of life.
Many times, a man's deepest love for you is his willingness to promise you a future.
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A unique nickname, a unique love
In addition to the above common endear names, some men will also give their beloved women some unique endear names.
These nicknames may be your fond memories or his special feelings for you.
These unique nicknames, which often belong only to the two of you, are the "secrets" between you. But it can make people feel a different kind of love and care.
For example, some men will call their beloved woman "little lazy pig", although it sounds a little playful, but it reveals that he is infinitely doting on you.
Or, some men will call you "little fairy", even if they praise you, they also admire you.
Some men will give you a nickname that only the two of you understand, and this intimacy is even more unique.
Behind these unique nicknames, there is actually a man's unspeakable love for you.
Love is like a book, and the affectionate name that a man gives you is like the title of the book. Through this title, you can see how much he loves you.
So, when you hear the affectionate name he gives you, you might as well feel the affection and warmth in it with your heart.
As the French writer Victor Hugo said, "Life is a flower, and love is nectar." ”
May every woman be affectionately cared for by men, and bloom the most beautiful flowers under the nourishment of love.