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When the love between men and women arises, it is a warm and ecstatic "can't hide"!
When the relationship between men and women ends, it is cold and suffocating "can't stay"!
The appearance of some people is destined to let you learn how to identify love, so that you can stay with the truly worthy love!
Therefore, don't be obsessed with other people's shortcomings, letting go is letting go of yourself!
In the world of feelings, you have to be who is whom, but who is for whom is just the idea of "long-term choice" that arises when you are admitted!
Don't talk about the reality of men, in fact, many times between choosing and letting go, whoever is more rational will not be burdened with negative karma by their own "blindness"!
The person who loves you has an emotional component, but the person who is chosen for love must be because of your indispensable value!
The biggest reason why men change their minds is that they decide to turn around after their needs at different stages are not met.
And before turning around, the man had already thought about it repeatedly and passed on the signal!
When a man's heart is not in you, these obvious manifestations can't be hidden:
1: Will avoid enjoying time alone with you
People who really love each other, even if there is a distance in space, their hearts will still be in one place!
A relationship that has deteriorated, even if it is together, the distance between hearts is an insurmountable chasm!
If a man's heart is not on you, he will be very reluctant to be alone with you. If you can, the man will show a spatial escape from you, so that you can't get closer.
You take the initiative to approach, he either avoids or finds reasons and excuses to alienate you, you keep your distance from him with emotions, and he is at ease!
Such a man may not have officially proposed to part with you so far, but the value of your existence has begun to blur for him!
Once your existence is worthless, separation is an irrefutable ending!
2: Will refuse to listen to your heart
Good feelings, there must be good communication and sharing!
A man whose heart is still on you will hardly deliberately ignore your feelings and ignore your needs and demands!
Only a man whose heart is not in you will reflect that your joys, sorrows, and sorrows are just your own business with "you are you, I am me, don't disturb my mood"!
A man's unlove often starts from the impatience of not wanting to listen to your "nagging", and the traces have been exposed!
In such a situation, if you are smart enough, don't ask why!
Just imagine, if the value of your existence is indispensable to the other party, if your bottom line and principles are adhered to, you can make men fear and respect......
So, what reason do you think the other person will ignore your voice and ignore your feelings?
3: In the face of your contribution, the most you will respond to is that it is a matter of course
A good relationship is two people who are grateful to each other and cherish each other!
When the relationship deteriorates, the continuation of the relationship will be faced with the "loneliness and loneliness" of two people together with one person's persistence and rush.
When the heart is still on you, your words and deeds, your little dedication, the other party will remember, because that experience is really good for him!
When a person's heart is not in you, your contribution is what it should be - if you do well, it is your duty, and if you don't do it well, it is your lack of heart!
What are you clinging to?
If he still cares about you, how can he not be moved by your dedication, and why will he not show his gratitude with more care in response?
Between men and women, the beginning of the relationship may end!
The most obvious way for people to mature through experience is to ask you to face all unexpected encounters with "normal psychology" in the midst of all cold and warm!
No matter how much you loved each other, no matter how many vows you made, remember:
All you can control is your own heart, and all you can do is protect yourself!
As for how others choose, that's someone else's freedom, and you really can't intervene except to measure the relationship with the value of existence!
Love is the purgatory of people in the world. Whether it's love or friendship, the right time and the right person can achieve positive results!
I am an author in the field of high-quality emotion, a professional counselor, and have provided valuable and meaningful help to many counselors. I have rich experience in marriage, relationships, interpersonal relationships, etc., if you have any emotional confusion, please feel free to consult me.
Topic discussion: In the face of the wrong person, what do you think is the psychology of people who don't know how to stop losses in time? Let's talk about it in the comment area.