Preface
Middle-aged bereaved daughter, white-haired people sent black-haired people, and elderly people sent husbands, her deeds are called "legends".
Ordinary people are 60 years old when they reach the age of retirement, but Sheng Hailin insisted on giving birth to twins at the age of 60.
No matter how persuaded by others, she was not shaken.
It is said that the mother is great, and this is not false at all, in order for the daughters to grow up, she said:
"I don't want 500 years, I just want to borrow another 30 years from the sky!"
So, 14 years later, how is she and the twins doing now that her husband has died?
First, the bad news that caught you off guard
Our protagonist today is named Sheng Hailin, a woman who resolutely risked her life to become a mother at the age of 60.
So what kind of story happened to Sheng Hailin?
Sheng Hailin, a native of Hefei, Anhui Province, entered the army when she was young, worked as a military doctor, and met her husband Wu in the army.
After completing their military service, the two left the army one after another, got a new job, and had a lovely daughter.
In this way, the couple watched their daughter grow up, get married, and start a family.
If she could, Sheng Hailin really hoped that such days could go on forever, but unfortunately, during the Spring Festival in 2009, an accident happened!
That day, just as the old couple was chatting and gossiping and preparing to eat dumplings, a hurried phone call broke the warm atmosphere!
On the phone, the father-in-law was very eager to tell the old couple a bad news: Sheng Hailin's daughter Tingting and her husband had a car accident on the way back to their hometown!
After learning the bad news, Sheng Hailin and the others did not delay, immediately packed their things and took a taxi to their son-in-law's house overnight.
It's a pity that the thing that worries them the most still happened, their daughter and son-in-law both passed away!
At first, Sheng Hailin, who was in grief, thought that her daughter and son-in-law had died in a car accident, but as an experienced doctor, Sheng Hailin soon realized that something was wrong.
Because on the bodies of her daughter and son-in-law, Sheng Hailin did not see the scars that were obviously caused by car accidents or other external impacts!
In other words, it is very likely that the death of the daughter and son-in-law had another cause.
Unexpectedly, when Sheng Hailin asked the truth about her daughter's death, her father-in-law and mother-in-law always flickered, as if they were avoiding something.
Sheng Hailin, who was more and more sure that there was a ghost in it, immediately launched an investigation.
Years of medical career have allowed her to find clues!
After careful identification, Sheng Hailin confirmed that his daughter died of gas poisoning!
Subsequently, Sheng Hailin easily restored the truth of the matter.
Tingting is a small couple, it should be burning briquettes at home, and the problem of the exhaust pipe during heating caused the two people in their sleep to die of gas poisoning!
The truth surfaced, but Sheng Hailin didn't argue about anything because of this, and after learning the news of her daughter's death, the poor mother was already disheartened.
What happened to Sheng Hailin after that?
Second, even the master
It is also quite embarrassing to say, in China in the 21st century, we have already received the education of atheistic Marx, but there are still many people who regard temples and other religious places as places of solace.
Although it seems to be a bit superstitious, you can't help but admit that many times those who are sad can indeed find some solace in these quiet places, such as Sheng Hailin.
The loss of a daughter in old age is unbearable grief for any parent. Since the death of her daughter, Sheng Hailin has lived like a walking corpse, and her husband seems to have been drained of his energy all at once.
The small home, which was originally quite warm, became lifeless for a while.
It's in the middle of this dead air. Sheng Hailin began to go to the temple to seek comfort, and at the same time to pray for her daughter's blessing, hoping that her daughter would have less suffering in the next life.
It was also during this process that a monk discovered Sheng Hailin, whose eyes were often red and swollen, and judged that this mother might have endured the pain of a white-haired person sending a black-haired person.
So, the monk made a suggestion to Sheng Hailin, since you feel that the current person has no concern for you, then why don't you find a concern for yourself?
These words made Sheng Hailin suddenly realize!
Yes, my daughter is gone, but I may not be able to be a mother anymore!
So, she returned home in a hurry and told her husband what she had learned in the temple.
The husband felt that this was a solution, so he and his wife went to a nearby welfare home, hoping to adopt a child and find another care for their own life.
But unfortunately, after learning about the situation of the husband and wife, the welfare institute said that because you are too old, you are not legally allowed to adopt a child.
No way, taking care of the children, it was hard work, Sheng Hailin and his wife were already 60 years old at that time, which was really not very reassuring.
In this way, she originally wanted to be a mother again, but Sheng Hailin was once again hit by reality.
But will Sheng Hailin give up just yet?
Three, take the risk of having children
After being rejected by the welfare home, the couple was very depressed for a while, feeling that their old age was really full of gloom.
But it wasn't long before things took a turn for the better.
Sheng Hailin learned from TV that in 2008, an old Japanese lady over sixty years old was becoming a mother in IVF!
This made Sheng Hailin's heart come alive again.
But this time, her husband objected, after all, Sheng Hailin was already 60 years old, and her body might not be able to withstand the toss.
Yes, having a child at the age of 60, even if the current medical technology is relatively developed, is a high-risk thing.
As a doctor, why doesn't Sheng Hailin know?
But for Sheng Hailin at this time, in order to make up for the regret in her heart, she would rather gamble!
So after successfully convincing her husband, Sheng Hailin came to the hospital in 2009 for IVF surgery.
But the results were surprising, because Sheng Hailin was pregnant with twins!
If it was Sheng Hailin when she was young, then this would undoubtedly be great news, but for Sheng Hailin, who was already in her sixtieth year, the twins were simply fatal!
The hospital suggested that Sheng Hailin have an abortion, but Sheng Hailin had to give birth to these two children desperately.
Therefore, not long after becoming pregnant, Sheng Hailin had to go to the hospital to be cared for by doctors because her body was too weak.
Although they experienced a lot of twists and turns during this period, fortunately, two girls who looked slightly thin still came to the world.
Looking at the two lovely children, the hearts of the old couple were sweet and stressed.
Although he used to have a decent job and a considerable pension, he is now an old man after all.
Therefore, in order to let their daughters have a better future, the old couple soon chose to re-emerge and make money to support their family.
It stands to reason that it is more difficult to find a high-paying job at their age.
But fortunately, because the topic of Sheng Hailin's advanced age and giving birth to children is really gimmicky, and Sheng Hailin herself is also very well connected in the local medical community, so in the next few years, Sheng Hailin earned a huge sum of 7 million by being a speaker!
Do you feel envious of this? Can you still have this function when you have a child at an advanced age?
But God doesn't always take care of this family like this.
In 2019, my husband had a stroke!
Although the husband was able to save his life after timely treatment, he was completely paralyzed and lost his basic ability to take care of himself.
Now Sheng Hailin's life is even harder, the two children who are waiting to be fed, plus her paralyzed husband, all rely on her to take care of them alone.
In this way, three years later, in 2022, her husband passed away, leaving only Sheng Hailin, who was still trying her best to pull the two angels who came late.
epilogue
After Sheng Hailin's story was posted on the Internet, some people admired the greatness of maternal love, and some people ridiculed it, only thinking about having children at the age of 60, aren't you afraid of leaving two more orphans in the world?
For these I am noncommittal, I can only wish that Sheng Hailin can accompany those two children as much as possible.
Here, I wish the mother and daughter a perfect and warm ending, and I also wish all parents in the world to be able to have their children and grandchildren around their knees and bear joy.
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Sources of information in this article:
[1] Dawan News, 2022-12-07. Sheng Hailin's husband who gave birth to a 60-year-old daughter died suddenly, and she hoped to "borrow another 30 years from heaven and live hard with her young daughter"
[2] Jimu News, 2022-12-08. Jimu Quick Review┃Sheng Hailin's husband who gave birth to a 60-year-old daughter passed away suddenly, so say more warm words
[3] People's Daily Online, 2013-12-26. Dialogue: Sheng Hailin, a 60-year-old orphaned child, for the sake of my child, I strive to live to be 104 years old