In reality, if you want to see the character of your siblings, as long as you look at the matter of serving your parents, it is very accurate, and there is no need to say more.
It's not that we have to be brothers and sisters who serve at the bedside every day.
But when the parents are old, there are many small things that siblings can help deal with.
Whether these things are attentive or not, they all reflect the character of brothers and sisters. And that's important.
Brothers and sisters with good character deserve our good relationship. On the contrary, we should understand earlier:
People who treat our parents badly can't treat us very well. Isn't that right?
01 A very cold person
In reality, we judge brothers and sisters not by how much money they spend on their parents.
After all, everyone's economic conditions are different. Naturally, the standard of measurement should also be different.
But suppose, siblings, in their daily lives, are very indifferent to their parents. And his parents, themselves, did not treat him harshly, there is no such cause and effect.
That is enough to show that this brother and sister is a very indifferent person. It won't be much better for us in the future.
For example, some siblings can be ignorant of their parents' lives.
On weekdays, my parents don't know anything about their illness when they see a doctor and take medicine. I don't know what the medical examination is.
I only know that when I ask for money, I run home.
Honestly, that's too cold.
In reality, judging whether a person is indifferent is not based on whether his face is cold or not, but by his behavior, whether he cares and loves.
If your siblings treat their parents like this, then I'm sorry, he may be this kind of person in his bones.
You really can't expect too much from him.
02 Honesty
In reality, on the issue of serving parents, it can be seen whether siblings are honest or not.
Dishonest siblings evade their responsibilities while serving their parents. But when it came time to share the benefits, it was very positive.
What is the need for such people?
He can't be relied on by his parents, and it's naturally not worth mentioning to us.
What are we trying to do with them, when we invest time and energy in them?
For example, when parents are sick in bed, it will be easier for a few more people to take turns to take care of them.
But some brothers and sisters are deliberately pretending to be confused and evading responsibility.
But when it came time to share the benefits, he didn't mention it at all, and he was indifferent and ruthless.
Instead, it asks for an equal split, or even a multiple.
Isn't it an exaggeration to say that this kind of person is going to be? But there are indeed such people around, isn't it?
In reality, if you are in the stage of serving your parents, your siblings consciously avoid responsibility.
Then, you need to be mentally prepared.
Because he has a certain probability, he will be very positive when he divides the money in the future, and he will make you so angry that he vomits blood.
At the very least, you should be mentally prepared for this.
03 There is a big problem with whether it is a character
In reality, serving your parents in their old age, as well as the stage of illness, you can see whether your siblings have a big problem with their character.
People who have big problems with their character are hopeless.
For example, I know that some acquaintances have their old mother who is sick, and he also asks the old mother to serve their family of three.
At this level, everyone wants to swear, right?
There are also brothers and sisters who ignore their parents to a certain level, and they also bully other brothers and sisters.
It's unbearable!
In reality, people can only see their true character when they reach a critical moment.
On weekdays, the giggling between siblings can't really be seen.
Only when parents need to be taken care of in their old age can they see the true character of various people.
This is a clear opportunity, please identify carefully.
Brothers and sisters who are not good at character, let's have less contact. Don't hurt yourself later.