When many children first enter junior high school, they are ignorant, and we always think that junior high school is a continuation of primary school, just like primary school.
But reality slapped us hard.
Today, as a person who has come over, I will talk to you about 6 things that junior high school children must know.
If you don't want to be eliminated prematurely, listen carefully.
Three years in junior high school, mobile phone addiction? You have been left behind by 90% of the people
It is often said: "To destroy the child, it is enough to give him a mobile phone." "This is not only a huge test of self-control, but also a silent killer of time.
Today's children, mobile phones have become almost an indispensable part of life. But did you know that the seemingly intimate "little friend" of the mobile phone may actually be a stumbling block on your academic journey.
All kinds of social software and game applications on your mobile phone are tempting you and making you unconsciously waste a lot of valuable study time.
I have seen too many children with excellent grades plummeting because they were addicted to mobile phones.
They originally had a bright future, but because of a momentary indulgence, they missed out on valuable opportunities for growth.
So, if you want to achieve something in the three years of junior high school, then be sure to put down your phone and focus on your studies.
When you're not on your phone, you have more time to read, think, exercise, and even get enough sleep.
Trust me, when you step away from your phone, you will find a wider and better world.
Put down your phone, listen to your inner voice, and pursue your dream!
Don't blindly pursue gregariousness, be your own king
Sometimes, in order to fit into a certain circle, we have to go against our hearts and do things we don't like.
The third year of junior high school is a stage full of changes and challenges. At this stage, you may meet all kinds of people, some of them are enthusiastic and cheerful, and some are introverted and quiet.
You may feel that you can only be accepted and recognized if you are consistent with the majority.
But what I'm telling you is that this thinking is wrong.
Everyone has their own unique personality and characteristics, and there is no need to change yourself in order to cater to others.
If you give up your ego in order to be gregarious, then you will end up just a mediocre person with no personality.
Remember, true friends are those who can appreciate you, support you, and grow with you, and they will accept you as you are, not as you are in disguise.
Therefore, don't blindly pursue gregariousness, be your own king, and focus on self-growth, which is more meaningful than pursuing short-term joy.
Past glory is not a talisman, a new starting point requires a new attitude
Some students had excellent grades in elementary school, and when they reached junior high school, they thought they could sit back and relax. They thought that with the glory of the past, they could easily cope with the learning challenges of junior high school.
But what I'm going to tell you is that this kind of thinking is very dangerous.
Middle school and elementary school are two completely different stages, and the learning content and difficulty are very different.
Past achievements do not represent the future, and only by continuous efforts can we continue to maintain the lead.
If you keep basking in the glories of the past and don't make an effort to learn something new, then your grades will soon slip.
Remember, the glory of the past can only represent the past, and the road ahead still needs you to walk down-to-earth.
So, no matter what you achieved in elementary school, stay humble and eager to learn when you reach junior high school.
Take every exam as a new starting point and meet every challenge with a new attitude. Only in this way will you be able to go further and further on the path of learning in junior high school.
Seeing is not always believing, keep a clear head
Many students don't like to go to class, but their grades are still very good?
In fact, you have been deceived, many people you watch and play, but in fact they are secretly trying to study.
If you are easily led astray by them, then your learning path will become even more difficult.
Be sure to keep a clear head and not be fooled by appearances. Learn to think independently and not be easily influenced by external voices. Sticking to your goals and plans is the key to success.
At the same time, it is also necessary to learn to think and judge independently, so as to avoid being misled.
The ancients said: "Hearing is false, seeing is believing." ”
But in real life, what we see and hear may not be true.
Therefore, we need to keep a cautious heart and think deeply and judge every information and opinion.
Advice from parents, a treasure trove of wisdom
The junior high school stage is also in the stage of adolescence and rebellion.
It's normal for you to start having your own ideas and opinions, and you start to want to get rid of your parents, but it's still beneficial to listen to your elders.
They have experienced more ups and downs and have more experience and wisdom. Their advice can often point you in the right direction and avoid detours.
Of course, the final decision is up to you. But listening to their advice can at least allow you to take fewer detours and grow faster.
Remember, the advice of your parents and teachers is not a shackle to bind you, but a beacon to guide you forward.
Learn to cherish their advice, listen carefully and think, and you will find that their advice often contains profound truth and endless wisdom. It will help you better see the essence of the problem.
Master the method, plan for the future, and learn more calmly
If you want to do a good job, you must first sharpen your tools.
Learning is not a simple thing, it requires method and planning.
If you just blindly do the questions and memorize, then the effect may be limited. On the contrary, if you can master some effective study methods and make a reasonable study plan, then your learning efficiency will be greatly improved.
Of course, learning methods and plans are not set in stone, and you need to constantly adjust and refine them.
In the process of learning, you may encounter some difficulties and challenges, which require you to be flexible and adjust your learning methods and plans according to the actual situation.
At the same time, studying isn't just about preparing for exams and completing assignments. More importantly, through learning, you can continuously improve your comprehensive quality and ability, and lay a solid foundation for future development.
So, don't think of learning as a burden, but as a process of enjoyment and growth, and don't forget to give yourself time to explore your interests and relax, so that you can maintain long-term motivation to learn.
Last but not least, you may encounter all kinds of setbacks and difficulties in the third year of junior high school, but as long as you maintain a positive attitude and believe that you can overcome difficulties and succeed, then you will definitely be able to forge your own path.
The high school entrance examination may be just one stop in the journey of life, but it is indeed an important stop.
The third year of junior high school is a stage full of challenges and opportunities. If you want to stand out at this stage and not be eliminated prematurely, then it's important to keep these six points in mind.
Put down your phone and be your own king, keep a humble and studious attitude to meet every new challenge, keep a clear mind and not be confused by appearances, cherish the advice of parents and teachers and let them be your guide to move forward, master effective learning methods and planning skills to make learning more efficient and calm.
Remember, the sooner you understand the experience of these people who have come before, the sooner you can seize the opportunity on the track of life.
I believe that as long as you work hard and practice, you will be able to achieve excellent results in the three years of junior high school and lay a solid foundation for future development.
Come on, there is still a long way to go, but as long as the direction is right, we are not afraid of a long way.
Author: Wait for the wind to come
A working mother of two children, holding a pen in her left hand and a baby in her right hand, she likes to read, write, and paint, and firmly believes that even if she lives in a chicken feather, she must have her own poetry and distance in her heart.
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