"Do you also have an Abbe complex?"
was completely warmed by this news, according to a flash news report, recently, a father in Shandong sent a video to find the same little monkey doll for his son that has been discontinued. An aunt who has never met specially sent a brand-new doll that she has treasured for more than ten years, and there is a handwritten letter inside, the two-way rush of fatherly love and kindness, it is so warm.
In the video, the little monkey doll has been sewn and washed many times, and this is what the child began to hold when he was less than a year old. Now that he is twelve years old, he is still reluctant to throw it.
My son is also like this, he was born with a small blanket, he has to sleep every day, now he is fifteen years old and in his first year of high school, or the first thing he does when he goes home is to look for his little blanket, the little blanket is broken, and he is still not allowed to throw it away. [covers face] [covers face] [covers face]
I always thought he was a "fetish", but after reading the comment area, I realized that this kind of behavior is called "Abebe complex"!
It is said that because there is a little boy on Douyin, he has a towel that has accompanied him since birth, and he has to sleep with that towel every night, and if he doesn't have that towel, he will be restless and unable to sleep, and he also named that towel "Abebe".
After his mother posted this incident on Douyin, everyone resonated, saying that they also had items that grew up with them and gave them a sense of security.
As a result, everyone refers to this kind of item that accompanies them to grow up and gives them a sense of security, collectively called "Abebe".
It is a fetish complex in which the object of attachment can be a stuffed animal, an old dress, a small blanket, or an earlobe, belly button, an arm, to get a sense of security and satisfaction from it.
Some netizens said that my daughter's Abebe is the tip of the clothes, the tip of the quilt, the tip of the pillow, everything is pointy, she likes it, and she can't sleep without the point.
There is a boy in our neighborhood whose Abebe is an electric kettle, and he runs around with the kettle every day.
However, it is a normal behavior for a child to appear in need of comfort, not a pathological manifestation, and it will slowly disappear as he grows.
I also have an Abbe complex, so what is your Abbebe?