The dead are gone, the living mourn!
Recently, a memorial essay "The Death of My Wife" written by an affectionate husband for his wife became popular!
This article written by a Chinese Canadian details the bizarre experience of his wife suffering from cancer in Canada, the examination, diagnosis and treatment in the hospital, and the euthanasia. Reading between the lines is full of memories of his partner and troubles about the Canadian healthcare system.
The article mentions that although Canada implements a universal health insurance system, when dealing with serious diseases, there are errors in diagnosis, long waiting times for treatment, insufficient communication between doctors and patients, and some medical services and drugs are not covered by medical insurance, which makes private insurance a necessary choice for some families.
Although medical resources are mainly concentrated in urban areas, remote areas and vulnerable groups have difficulty accessing medical services, and the distribution of medical resources is fundamentally unequal.
From the beginning of his wife's discomfort to his death, the whole process was only more than two months, which was sad and unexpected.
The article mentions that despite advances in medicine, the choice of hospital and doctor is not always in the best interest of the patient in the actual treatment process.
has found a drug that can treat his wife, and his wife also has a strong desire to survive, but she was still euthanized, which is appalling, and she has no way to accept it until now.
This article has garnered a lot of attention and discussion on social media. Many netizens sympathized with the author of the article, but then many netizens found that the author was affectionate on the surface, but in fact it was not like that.
Some netizens questioned it, and some insiders provided some additional information.
First of all, the author of the article was questioned purely for the sake of enriching himself.
Because when this article was published, the author specially attached a QR code and opened a reward.
According to some netizens, after the death of the wife, the man has received a donation of 100,000 Canadian dollars from the local community in the name of his wife (nearly 50,000 Canadian dollars from the Chinese Association and nearly 40,000 Canadian dollars from the local church). He has also received tips by posting videos many times.
(This inevitably makes one wonder if this affectionate article is just to miss his wife?)
Secondly, is it really because medical care in Canada is the main cause of his wife's death?
Apparently not.
In the author's narrative, we see a woman carrying the sorrow of a family with her weak body.
The wife is an excellent and motivated girl, and she originally had a good future. But because he was forced to emigrate in order to fight for three children.
She gave birth to three children in 7 years, one of whom did not go to the hospital, but was still born at home, and did not receive good care after giving birth, which laid the foundation for her body's immunity.
Later, in order to support her family, she studied for a master's degree and worked in a harsh environment, studying while working, while also doing housework to take care of her three children and a giant baby-like husband. And her husband thinks she won't relieve stress......
It's not that he doesn't relieve stress, but that he has no one to do it for him. If someone is willing to share it for her, she wants to be easy too. Far away from friends and friends, her husband is such a person, it's not that she won't decompress, but people are firmly locked.
It is no wonder that a person's long-term physical fatigue cannot be shared, and if the mental fatigue cannot be relieved, it is no wonder that he must not get sick!
Shouldn't the husband be the most reflective person? Is it too late for the wife to analyze the cause after the wife's death without mentioning the sharing of the burden when she was alive?
Also, publishing a woman's privacy on the Internet in this way, is this respect or for your own affectionate persona?
I can only say that there are too many doubts......
We do not deny that husbands miss their wives very much, and it is unlikely that a woman who is so good and has given so much to her family will not be missed.
Because the whole life is supported by her values, the sky has fallen without the pillars.
But the value of people's lives has been almost squeezed, and when they die, they still have to take it to social media to attract traffic and reward, which really shouldn't be!