When interacting with each other,
Be cautious in your words.
Three sentences are not spoken,
Avoid injury and regret.
Today I will make it clear,
May you hear and gain insight.
The way of communication needs to be studied deeply,
Home and everything can be prosperous.
In the first sentence, Mo Yan divides the rich and the poor,
Everything in the world is determined.
The rich and the poor are providential,
Why bother with this.
Relatives get together to talk about homely things,
Sharing family affection and heart-to-heart.
If there are many things about money,
It's inevitable that I will feel guilty.
Knowing that money is outside the body,
Sincerity is even more rare.
Mo is suspicious of the rich and the poor,
Home and everything prospers.
In the second sentence, Mo Yan's children have no interest,
Children and grandchildren have their own children and grandchildren.
Every child is unique,
Show your talents and shine on the lintel.
Families get together to talk about children,
It's about care and expectation.
But if words hurt self-esteem,
It is inevitable that there will be dissatisfaction.
When you know that your children and grandchildren have their own aspirations,
The road to growth needs to be sharpened.
Mo's expectations are too high,
Patient guidance is advisable.
In the third sentence, Mo Yan's past caused disputes,
The past is gone.
Don't mention the past,
lest there be strife among the in-laws.
Relatives get together to talk about the past,
It's about sharing memories.
But if the old thing is brought up again,
It is inevitable that there will be waves in my heart.
When you know that the past is like smoke,
Why bother to stir up strife?
And let the past go with the wind,
Cherish the moment and be more real.
Keeping in mind when interacting with in-laws,
Don't mention three sentences.
言辞谨慎情意真,
Home and everything is naturally prosperous.
May you listen to this long insight,
The relationship between in-laws and families is more harmonious.
Mutual respect and understanding,
Build a better home together.
Family affection is the rarest in the world,
The fellowship of in-laws needs to be cherished.
Don't let words hurt your anger,
Home and everything goes well.
Today, I have the honor to say clearly,
May your heart rejoice in hearing this.
There is a secret to in-law communication,
May you comprehend more diligently.
The words are all at peace with this,
May there be harmony in all families.
Be cautious in family interactions,
The house is full of long-term harmony and happiness.
These are my thoughts on the three sentences that I should avoid when interacting with my in-laws. Each sentence contains a profound truth and is intended to remind us that we should maintain a heart of humility, respect, and understanding when dealing with our in-laws.
When talking about wealth and poverty, we should understand that wealth is not the only measure of a person's worth, but that the real value lies in our character, ability and contribution to society. Therefore, we should not be prejudiced or discriminated against our in-laws because of their wealth or poverty.
When talking about children, we should respect each child's individuality and choices, and not interfere too much with their growth and development. Every child has their own unique talents and potential, and as long as we give them enough support and encouragement, they will be able to shine in their own way.
When talking about the past, we should learn to let go of past grievances and disputes, and face the past with a tolerant and open-minded heart. The past cannot be changed, and we should cherish the present time and strive to create a better future.
In short, family interaction requires us to manage and maintain it with our hearts. As long as we maintain a heart of humility, respect and understanding, we can establish a harmonious and intimate family relationship and create a beautiful family life together.