Text: Marriage counselor Liu Jie
Men look strong, but they also have a vulnerable and sensitive part of their hearts, especially in love.
Deep down, they also long to be understood, praised, trusted, and loved by a woman.
When a woman touches a man's heart with warm words, that affection will make him feel precious.
Usually, there are four things that men like to listen to women say the most, see how many words you have said?
01
"You're amazing!"
Men are born with a desire to protect and conquer, they desire to be "heroes", to be praised and adored by others.
When a woman sincerely says "you are amazing", this sentence is like a spring breeze, which makes men feel extremely proud and satisfied.
As Mark Twain said, "I can live by a word of praise for two months." ”
Many times, a simple compliment is enough to make a man's heart rejoice and increase his confidence.
Imagine when a man achieves a small achievement at work, or "shows a hand" in life, showing his talent and ability,
Your "you are amazing" will make him feel that all the effort is worth it.
Such a compliment, not only a recognition of him, but also an affirmation of him, will make him more positive. Whether it's facing an unknown life or coping with the feelings between you.
02
"I believe in you!"
With trust in each other, love can go all the way.
Because of the existence of trust, two people are willing to be infinitely close and honest with each other.
When a woman says "I believe in you" to a man, this phrase is like a beacon that illuminates the man's world and gives him endless strength and courage.
As Shakespeare said, "Trust is the cornerstone of love, and it makes the house of love indestructible." ”
For example, when a man is in trouble and is anxious, a woman's "I believe in you" will make him feel great support and encouragement.
This sense of trust will make men more confident.
Because he knew that no matter what the outcome was, there was a woman who was always standing behind him, silently supporting him.
03
"Thank you!"
Don't think that there is no need for gratitude between close people. In fact, many times, if you can be grateful to each other, this relationship can go further.
When a woman says "thank you" to a man, this sentence is like a warm current that warms the man's heart.
Rousseau once said, "Gratitude is a kind of happiness that brings us closer to others." ”
In the process of getting along with two people, men have paid a lot for women, whether it is material support or spiritual care, which is worthy of gratitude and cherishment by women.
When a woman sincerely says "thank you", the man feels a sense of well-being that he is needed and valued.
This sense of happiness will make men more willing to pay for women and cherish their feelings for each other more.
04
"I love you!"
To love someone, you can't always keep it silently in your heart, but you have to say it boldly and let the other person feel it.
When a woman says "I love you" to a man, this sentence is like a beautiful piece of music that plays the melody of love and immerses the man in it.
As Victor Hugo said, "Love is the grand event of life, the most beautiful flower of life." ”
In love, men also crave the love of women. When a woman says "I love you" affectionately, the man feels a, like never before, happiness and satisfaction.
This sentence is not only a response to a man's feelings, but also a recognition and acceptance of him.
This kind of affectionate confession will make men intoxicated and more willing to run the relationship wholeheartedly.
In addition to the above four words, there are actually many warm words that can touch a man's heart.
For example, "You've worked hard!", "I'm proud of you!", "You're the best!", and so on. These words can make a man's heart feel good, feel your love for him, and then respond to you with his heart.
So, you might as well say more warm words to the man you love, so that your relationship is sweeter and more stable.
Let him feel your love, and the flower of your love will surely bloom in more brilliant colors!