Text: Marriage counselor Liu Jie
When it comes to love, although each of us has different needs, the most important thing is that we all want to experience the feeling of "being loved".
Perhaps for women, "being loved" is to hope that men can be good to themselves, can give enough company, and there are many affectionate and sweet love words, as well as heart-warming promises.
In fact, not only women, but also men in love also hope to be treated gently by women.
Many times, give a man a title that makes his heart move, and his love for you will increase a lot.
There are three titles, men who love you especially want to hear them, and women don't be stingy and reluctant to say it.
01
"Honey"
The title "dear" is simple but full of love.
When a woman gently addresses a man "dear", at that moment, the man's heart seems to melt.
This title is not only a woman's love and dependence on a man, but also makes a man feel that he is the only one in a woman's heart.
Shakespeare said, "Love is blind, and lovers do not see the lovely silly things they do." ”
In love, men also long to be "blindly" loved, eager to hear the loving "dear".
If you can call him "dear" more, he will be able to feel your tenderness and love for him, and the feelings between them will be much deeper.
For example, in everyday life, a woman can wake up a man in the morning and say, "Honey, it's time to get up." ”
Or when a man comes home tired, give him a warm hug and whisper, "Honey, you've worked hard." ”
Calling him "dear", coupled with a thoughtful word, will undoubtedly make the man feel surrounded by love, and he will cherish the relationship even more.
02
"Husband"
The title of "husband" has a very special meaning.
It represents a woman's recognition and entrustment to a man, and also represents the stability and durability of the relationship between two people.
When a woman calls a man "husband", it is not only a recognition of the man, but also an expectation for the future of the two people. It shows that she has already identified you in her heart and wants to become a family with you.
This title is not just a simple word, but also an emotional commitment.
She wants men to understand that your position in her heart is irreplaceable, and that you are the person she is willing to entrust for life.
Bing Xin once said: "A good family is the root of all happiness and strength." ”
And the title of "husband" is the longing for a beautiful family.
When a woman addresses a man like this, the man will be more aware of his responsibilities and will be more attentive to the relationship.
In daily interactions, women can call men "husbands" at the right time.
For example, when celebrating some important days, spending a difficult time together, or sharing joy together, you can call the man "husband" to deepen the relationship between the two people.
If you call a man like this, you can make him feel that he is your closest partner and dependence, and there will be more tacit understanding and trust between the two people.
03
"Baby"
The title "baby" is full of pampering and pampering.
When women call men "baby", men men are filled with a sense of superiority. I feel like a cherished treasure, carefully cared for by a woman.
This kind of title can make a man feel the favor from a woman, making the relationship more sweet and romantic.
As Romain Rolland said, "Love is a permanent faith." ”
And the title "baby" is precisely the true embodiment of this belief. It makes a man understand how important he is in a woman's heart, and he will naturally cherish the relationship even more.
In the process of getting along, the woman can call the man "baby" when he needs care.
For example, when a man is sick or in trouble, give him a warm hug and tell him, "Don't be afraid, baby, I will always be with you." ”
Such a title, and what you do for him, can make a man feel extremely warm, and he will naturally rely on you more and be reluctant to leave you.
In love, the three titles of "dear", "husband", and "baby" are what men especially want to hear.
Women should not be stingy, they should shout generously, and shout more, the more you shout, the sweeter the man's heart will be.
Love needs to be cared for, and using symmetry can often add points to love.
May every pair of lovers find their own happiness and move forward hand in hand on the road of love.