Showing off wealth, leading fashion, and repeatedly sweeping the Internet, these are people's impressions of Zhang Meng. As a female star with a wealthy family background and married to a wealthy businessman, her married life has always attracted much attention. And just recently, Zhang Meng rarely shared the bits and pieces of her ten-year marriage with her husband publicly, which undoubtedly aroused many people's curiosity and discussion again.
Judging from Zhang Meng's sharing, the marriage in the past ten years has not been smooth sailing. She admitted that in this marriage, they also experienced a period of "noisy and itchy". But in the end, they still choose to move forward hand in hand and write their own love story together.
This is thought-provoking, a wealthy marriage that seems glamorous on the outside does not always seem to be a smooth road on the inside. So, what is it that allows Zhang Meng and her husband Lu Chao to go from the original "Beauty and the Beast" to such love today?
A special encounter opens up an extraordinary love
Let's first review the love experience of Zhang Meng and Lu Chao. It is reported that when Zhang Meng participated in the Miss Universe pageant, he became attached to Lv Chao, the founder of Shanghai Yaoke Media. With her excellent appearance and talent, Zhang Meng won the championship of the Chinese division in one fell swoop and entered the showbiz. And in this process, she not only fell in love with Lu Chao, but also became his "boss lady".
This kind of love story of "employee promotion" undoubtedly makes many people feel that Zhang Meng is "flying on the branch and becoming a phoenix". But in fact, Zhang Meng's original family is equally impressive. Her father was the president of a university, and her mother worked at the Institute of Geology, which can be said to be a very favorable family condition.
In this context, Zhang Meng's choice to marry a wealthy businessman with a successful career undoubtedly reflects her unique vision and vision.
seems to have a glamorous married life, but the acquaintance process between Zhang Meng and Lu Chao was not smooth sailing. According to Zhang Meng, at the beginning, Lu Chao often told her about the history of the Three Kingdoms, but she didn't understand it well. This also reflects the differences in the cultural backgrounds of the two.
But as Zhang Meng said, such differences have not become an obstacle for them, but have become a complement to each other. Lu Chao's academic accomplishment has provided good support for Zhang Meng's career development.
And Zhang Meng's fashion temperament and social circle have also brought a lot of help to Lu Chao's career. It can be said that the reason why they can become the couple they are today is precisely because each other's characteristics can complement and integrate well.
From "Beauty and the Beast" to a love story of growing old together
Although Zhang Meng and Lu Chao's encounter was quite exciting, it was obviously not smooth sailing to maintain this marriage to this day. As Zhang Meng said, in the past ten years of marriage, they have also experienced a period of "noisy and noisy, painful and itchy".
This makes us think, as a seemingly glamorous and wealthy couple, how did they resolve the conflict and maintain this marriage?
Judging from the details shared by Zhang Meng, the answer seems to be a bit unexpected. It turns out that this couple, who always seem to remain sweet, have actually had disputes and troubles. But the key point is that they did not give up because of this, but chose to re-examine each other with the eyes of more cherishing each other.
Just as Miyazaki said, "Love is not looking for a perfect person, but appreciating the imperfect person with perfect eyes", which just shows the key to Zhang Meng and Lu Chao having a good marriage. They know that no one is perfect, but as long as they appreciate each other's good with their hearts and tolerate each other's shortcomings with sincere emotions, marriage can be passed on forever.
And that's exactly what happened. In ten years of married life, Zhang Meng and Lu Chao not only overcame various difficulties, but also became each other's most solid backing. As Zhang Meng said, "You don't need much ritual in life, but you will feel very warm at critical times."
It is precisely because they know how to cherish each other that they can give each other the most precious memories at the most important moments. For example, on the 10th wedding anniversary, Lu Chao specially chartered the hotel where the two got married, hoping to regain the sweet time with his wife at this special moment.
Such delicacy and nuance undoubtedly reflect Lu Chao's love for Zhang Meng. And Zhang Meng was also moved. From the recreation of the wedding ceremony, to the rose petals scattered throughout the room, to the card that reads "Love your husband", all the details make you feel the deep affection between the couple.
It can be said that it is precisely because both of them know how to take care of this marriage with their hearts that they have grown from the original "Beauty and the Beast" to such a loving couple today. And this also sets a good example for us to run a marriage.
Only sincere feelings can overcome the passage of time!
Think about it, in this era of rapid change, it is very rare to be able to maintain a marriage for ten years and still maintain love. Especially for wealthy couples like Zhang Meng and Lu Chao, they undoubtedly receive far more temptations and attention than ordinary people.
But the good thing is that they can still firmly grasp each other's hearts and weather the storm together. The reason for this, perhaps, as Zhang Meng said, is that both of them are very rational people, always keep themselves at the beginning, and appreciate each other with a more perfect eye.
In fact, we can see from a few details of Zhang Meng and Lu Chao that they have the wisdom to maintain their marriage.