In this world, everyone is weaving their own network of life, and neighborhood and kinship ties are undoubtedly an important part of our daily lives. As the old saying goes: "Distant relatives are not as good as close neighbors", and "relatives are close when they move around". However, life is not always sunny and sunny, and we need to be wise to identify who we are close to and who we should keep an appropriate distance from. As the ancestors said, if you want to live a smooth life, don't make these two kinds of neighbors, don't go to these three kinds of relatives, remember. It's not about superstition, it's about how to avoid unnecessary troubles in life, so as to better protect yourself and make life smoother.
"Don't make these two kinds of neighbors"
1. A neighbor with a corrupt family
The relationship between neighbors is like a bridge, connecting the bits and pieces of life. As the saying goes, "good things don't go out, bad things spread thousands of miles", neighbors with corrupt family style, their words and deeds are often like viruses, invisibly spreading negative energy. Think about it, if you are exposed to constant quarrels and morally depraved behaviors every day, it is difficult for your own living atmosphere not to be affected by them.
Over time, a harmonious and peaceful family environment may be broken, and personal emotions and even family members' values may be eroded. Rather than complaining about the changing world, it is wise to build a spiritual barrier at the beginning and keep a certain distance from such neighbors.
2. Neighbors who are keen on gossip
"There is a dragon spring on the tongue, and there is no blood in the murder. "A neighbor who is keen on gossip is like an invisible sword that often inadvertently stabs others. Once trivial matters and private topics at home fall into the mouths of these people, they are likely to become the talk of the neighbors after tea and dinner. Respecting the privacy of others is a basic criterion for our social interactions. Being in close contact with such people means putting one's life under transparency and losing the sense of security that it deserves. Therefore, for such neighbors, you may wish to adopt an attitude of respectful distance, which not only preserves your dignity, but also allows life to return to tranquility.
"Don't go away with these three kinds of relatives"
1. Relatives who hate the poor and love the rich.
Although the blood and family ties are deep, in the face of reality, some people seem to only value interests. When faced with economic difficulties, if your relatives only see poverty in their eyes and do not see the truth, they treat you like a piece of, and such relatives will only make you feel cold when they move around.
As the saying goes, "No one asks about the poor in the downtown area, but the rich have distant relatives in the mountains." Recognizing this reality is not to teach people to be indifferent, but to encourage us to cherish those true relatives who always care about and support us, regardless of whether they are rich or poor. When the day of success and fame, don't forget your original intention and repay those relatives and friends who have helped in difficult times.
2. Kindness will take revenge on relatives.
In life, there will always be such a kind of relatives, who are willing to accept help, but are not grateful, and turn against each other at the slightest dissatisfaction, turning their original kindness into resentment. In the face of such relatives, blindly giving may be exchanged for disappointment and pain.
Everyone should understand that helping others is done out of kindness and affection, not by duty. When we are misunderstood and betrayed, bravely saying "no" is a legitimate protection of our own rights and interests, and it is also a commitment to sincere feelings.
3. Insatiable relatives.
"People's hearts are not enough to swallow elephants", some relatives always covet what others have, and ask for extravagance under the guise of family affection. What they care about is not the exchange of feelings, but the possession of material things.
When your carefully selected gifts become their bragging rights, when your cherished heart is taken for granted, such interactions have long lost the essence of family affection. In the face of such relatives, adjusting the frequency of communication in a timely manner is not only a respect for the fruits of one's labor, but also a benign adjustment to the relationship with each other.
In fact, choosing what kind of neighbors to be with and which relatives to keep in touch with is not a simple superstitious argument, but a wise choice related to one's quality of life and social relationships. Knowing how to discern and keep a moderate distance is not just unkind, but to make life more pure and harmonious. Let us feel life with our hearts, handle interpersonal relationships rationally, and work together to create a warm and harmonious community home, so that the picture of life can be more colorful.