When the child goes to kindergarten, parents can finally relax a little more. As a result, a new problem has come again!
Because the kindergarten is too early, there is no extended service, especially in public kindergartens, and the baby must be picked up at the point.
When Dingdong went to kindergarten, I often had to go out before 4 o'clock and wait in line at the kindergarten gate to pick up the baby.
Because of picking up the baby, I have met a lot of uncles and aunts and heard a lot of gossip stories.
The most impressive thing is an uncle in his 80s, who waits at the entrance of the kindergarten at 3 o'clock in the afternoon every day.
Someone asked her why she came so early?
The uncle said that his legs and feet were not very convenient, and he was worried that the teacher would have opinions if he was late, and the child would not be happy.
Seeing this, many friends will think that the old man thinks a little too much. Isn't it just that the child is a little late, and it's not a big problem, how can the teacher have an opinion?
I would say, this is no small thing!
Our neighbor was once "targeted" by the teacher because of the problem of being late for picking up the baby from school.
In September last year, the neighbor's Erbao went to kindergarten. The neighbor found a job with little work on his doorstep. This unit is very user-friendly, as long as you don't delay work, you can pick up your children at any time.
It stands to reason that there is no problem with the neighbor picking up the child from school at half past four, but it was the busy season at that time, and she was just afraid of others gossiping, so she would pick up the baby a little later every day.
For example, if the child gets out of school at 4:30, she will set off again at 4:30 to pick up the baby, plus the time on the road, she will be ten minutes late every day.
The teacher said it several times, and she said that it was okay and that she would be late again in two days. Over time, the teacher has an opinion about her, and she doesn't care about the child as much as she used to.
Ding Ma wants to say that kindergarten teachers are not nannies and cannot serve children around the clock.
After the child is out of school, the teacher also needs to prepare for the lesson, study, and pay attention to his family and children, instead of delaying his time every day because the parents do not pay attention, are not responsible, and do not take it for granted.
summarized the 4 ways to pick up the baby after school, the most likely to provoke the teacher's "disgust", parents must not disagree, otherwise it is easy to be pulled into their "blacklist" by the teacher.
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The first is the aforementioned tardiness.
It may only be five minutes and ten minutes late each time, which may not seem like much, but it will cause a lot of trouble for the teacher.
At present, most schools do not allow parents to enter the campus, so they can only queue up at the school gate to pick them up. Class by class, they lined up downstairs, to the school gate, and delivered to their parents.
Parents are late, which means that teachers have to wait at the door with their children, and the longer they are late, the longer the wait time.
Many teachers need to go back to the classroom to clean up, organize toys, prepare courseware, and make some props.
Just because your child gets out of school early doesn't mean that the teacher is out early. Dingdong's aunt is a kindergarten teacher, and she often doesn't get off work until six or seven o'clock in the evening.
It's okay for parents to be late once or twice, but after a long time, the teacher will definitely feel uncomfortable, feeling that he has increased his working hours and can't take care of the family better.
The impact of a parent's tardiness on a child is not small. After school, the little friends were picked up by their parents early, and only they were still waiting at the door, and the children would definitely be disappointed and unhappy, and even lack a sense of security, feeling that their parents didn't love them anymore.
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The second is not to tell the teacher in advance.
Some parents are busy with work and some are busy with family, and there will always be some temporary and urgent things, and then they can't pick up their children on time.
It's hard to avoid this, but don't forget to inform your teacher.
For example, I suddenly have a meeting this afternoon, and I can't find anyone to pick up the children.
I should have called the teacher or sent a message explaining my situation, telling him that I was sorry, and that the teacher would explain to the child that I would pick up the child at about what time. Instead of putting the child in kindergarten and leaving it alone.
For teachers, the most frustrating thing is not that they are late once or twice once or twice, but that they don't talk about something in advance, and they can't contact anyone.
Teachers also have their own lives, and if parents say hello to teachers in advance, teachers can make arrangements for themselves and their children. For example, if you have something to do in the evening, you can hand over your child to another teacher, or move the matter to an hour or two later.
But if the parents don't come to pick up the baby, and don't notify in advance, and can't contact anyone, the teacher can only accompany the child and wait silently. The more you wait, the more angry you get, and the more you wait, the more depressed you become......
03.
The third is to temporarily let the "born" pick up the child
Sometimes parents are busy and don't have time to pick up their children, so they may ask neighbors, colleagues, friends and other "living people" who don't know the teacher to pick them up.
When my nephew was in kindergarten, he was coming into school to pick up his children, and each parent had a card.
One day on a whim, I picked up my nephew from school, so I took my mother's card and went to school. Even though I took the card and entered the school, my nephew called my aunt, and the teacher didn't dare to give my nephew to me.
Instead, after the children were gone, I double-checked with my nephew, and then called my brother again, and we were tossed for a long time before letting us leave.
When children are in school, teachers need to ensure their safety, and picking up children is a very headache for teachers, which is both a waste of time and a risk.
Ps: When you really can't pick it up and can only pick it up "raw", you must say hello to the teacher in advance, and then make a video when you pick up the child to do the final review and confirmation.
In this way, teachers can also feel at ease and at ease.
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The fourth is to grab the teacher and ask questions
If you want to say what teachers are most afraid of, it is probably that parents keep asking.
Some parents are more "sensible" and will wait aside and wait for the teacher to finish asking questions; some parents are more anxious, a bunch of people line up to pick up their children, and the teacher is busy and dizzy, so they have to grab the teacher and ask questions.
Not to mention the teachers, the parents who are waiting will also be very hot.
It's normal to be worried about your child's situation at school and ask the teacher, but be sure to get the timing right.
For example, make a phone call or send a message to the teacher in advance to make an appointment for communication. Teachers can communicate with parents in a high-quality manner according to their own schedule.
Remember, there are a few points that you must pay attention to when communicating with your teacher.
1. When you get off work at night, don't send frequent messages to call the teacher (unless something happens to the child at school, such as bumping and getting injured, or being bullied by children).
Teachers also have their own lives, they need to rest, they need to spend time with their families and children, and they need their own time and space.
2. When you go to work during the day, don't bomb the teacher frequently.
During working hours, teachers need to devote themselves to their children, and their mobile phones are usually placed in boxes/drawers and will not read and reply to messages in time. If you are in a hurry, you can call the classroom, and if you are not in a hurry, you can leave a message to the teacher.
3. Don't fool around in the class group, such as some specious words, which will cause conflicts between teachers and parents.
Kindergarten is a small society, although it does not learn as much knowledge as primary school and junior high school, but it also affects the physical and mental development of children.
Especially teachers, most children want teachers to recognize themselves and like themselves, in addition to their own excellence, they must also have a parent who does not lag behind.
It is recommended that you start by picking up your child, try to be as reliable as possible, do not cause trouble to the teacher, and do not do the above 4 behaviors that are easy to provoke the teacher's "disgust"!