The son's company sent a box of fruits, a total of fifteen. These fruits have a mouth-watering sweet taste, but the exact name is not known. I proposed at the dinner table and called my sister to ask her to come and take three or four fruits, and at the same time planned to give five to my daughter-in-law's mother-in-law's family, and put the rest in the refrigerator to enjoy myself. However, my daughter-in-law was not very happy about this, and she said with a straight face that she would have her own arrangements and that I didn't need to worry too much. I was confused and didn't understand what I was saying wrong. After all, I had made it clear that I was going to give my mother five fruits, but she didn't seem to be happy.
Perhaps, my daughter-in-law's displeasure stemmed from the fact that I had made such an arrangement without consulting her. Perhaps she felt that this was a violation of her rights, and that she should arrange her own family affairs without my interference. Or maybe she thinks I'm doing this in favor of my own family and ignoring hers. After all, in family relationships, equality and respect for all parties is very important.
Maybe I had some deviations in my expression that upset her. Perhaps my tone or expression gave her a sense of pressure or impatience, making her feel that I was forcibly interfering in her family affairs. Or maybe my wording doesn't take into account her feelings and makes her feel like I'm ignoring her rights and position. After all, communication is mutual, and both parties need to be able to respect each other's feelings and positions.
Perhaps, her attitude towards me was not directed at me personally, but as a reaction to the family relationship as a whole. Perhaps she has been in a passive position in the family and has felt pressure and expectations from the outside world, so she is more sensitive and vulnerable. Or she has her own set of plans and arrangements for family affairs, and is unwilling to accept outside interference and guidance. After all, everyone has their own way of life and principles of doing things, and they need to be treated with enough respect and understanding.
In either case, I should think carefully and respect her feelings and position. I should communicate openly with her to understand her thoughts and needs, and discuss the arrangement of family affairs together. In the future, I will pay more attention to my words and deeds, respect her rights and positions, and work together to create a harmonious and happy family environment.
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