Some post-00s don't want to get married, don't want to have children, don't want to buy a house, and don't want to be arranged in their lives!
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After giving birth, I haven't eaten a barbecue for three years, and I have to think about drinking a bottle of Coke. Then this quality of life is really not suitable for having children, really. Of course, people may leave the good ones to their children, but are they really happy?
Last year, my dad was hospitalized for a heart attack for 1 month, and my mom brought food to take care of him. I spent a lot of time on the day I was hospitalized and the day I was discharged, and the rest of the time I was in a hurry to take a look and leave. Commuting to and from work to pick up and drop off children to help with homework, and the daily schedule is very full. There are also tutorial classes on weekends, and there is not enough time to go back and forth to the hospital in a fragmented time. I feel very unfilial.
It's true, my daughter was in the second or third grade of elementary school. After the 6th grade, I began to talk about where my classmates went to eat, what my classmates bought to show off to her, and where my classmates went to play during the holidays... I didn't think she was comparable, because she didn't ask me to give her that, but when she said that, I felt guilty and useless!
Well, in the workplace, the post-90s generation has become a senior, but what should I do when I get old? It seems that I can't count on my children when I am old! I was defeated by you
95 should be in his early 30s, and he didn't want children if he wasn't married to his partner. I feel that it is troublesome to have children and do not want to be tied up. An expert has interpreted that people are "seeking advantages and avoiding disadvantages", and in the past, having children was "productivity" and "raising children to prevent old age", but now having children is a "burden", especially young people can see it more clearly.
The 03-year-old child is only 21 years old, and it's normal to think about playing in my head first, and I don't know if I will change my mind in another 10 years
The main one is to think about yourself first
It is true that the competition is fierce now, and some young people are no longer under the pressure of life, but the pressure of survival. Getting married and having children became a luxury.
Look, not only the post-00s, but also some post-80s regret having children in the face of the current situation
Reality has defeated not only the idea of "passing on the family lineage", but also many old rules that have been wiped out by reality
Ten years ago, prices were not the same as they are now, including the cost of living for my children to go to college in the future, and I suspect that my monthly salary will not be enough for her to eat and wear at school.
Now the information gap is getting smaller and smaller, and everyone can see how their family is doing.
What would you like to share about the current state of the fertility environment?
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