Do you sometimes feel very wronged, born in a poor and hopeless family, no one hurts at home, no one protects you outside, work your own, your luck is still so bad!
You're singing in your heart "I'm always hurt, hurt!"
Alas! Life is already very hard, and my heart is hurt again! Poor, what can I do to save this heart full of resentment?
I used to be a resentful ghost, complaining for many years, but fortunately, God once gave me two pills.
A pill is called "Objective Knowledge of the World".
We often feel that others are a hundred times luckier than ourselves. Some people just put down the beautiful food in the bowl and then sigh "I am the most pitiful person in the world"!
But is that really the case?
Born as a human being, who is not a tear all the way, struggling all the way, and laughing a little. Whether it's a celebrity or an ordinary person, there's no escape.
The songs and laughter you see, the bright appearance, today's travel check-in, tomorrow's fitness, and the acquired food are just what others want you to see, used to flaunt yourself, used to improve your style, and used to earn traffic.
Behind them is suffering that we can't see.
Where is there any good for no reason, "If you want to wear a crown, you must bear its weight", this is a wise saying.
The other pill is called "Choosing Attitude".
is also in the face of hardships, some people choose to face difficulties and suffer for a while, and some people choose to feel sorry for themselves and suffer for a lifetime.
Days are meant to be enjoyed, not compared. Everyone has their own preferences, why do we have to be like others, the society imposes some so-called standards on us, it is nothing more than trying to cultivate us into qualified leeks.
Others travel to check in, you can take a leisurely stroll.
Someone else's food carnival, you can meditate and read.
When others talk about dragons and tigers, you can smile indifferently.
Others are luxurious and expensive, but you can be simple and casual.
Life is meaningless, each of us did not come to this world for anything, no one came with a purpose, everyone came to this world purely by chance, the fate of father and mother brought us here, if they did not get together, there would be no our arrival, if they were married by another person, it was not us who was born.
Life is meaningless, death is even more meaningless, then only this process in the middle we can make it a little meaningful, we can't control whether hardship will come or not, but we can choose the attitude of living in hardship. It is to endure hardship, and also choose to be happy and happy to endure hardship.
In fact, there are two sides to everything, good and bad. There is no such thing as absolute good, and there is no such thing as absolute bad. If you are not healthy, the advantage is that you don't have to work hard, others have worked hard for you. You don't have great skills, and the good thing is that you don't have to worry about someone calculating you every day, who will compete with an incompetent person. You're not pretty, or you're ugly, great, you'll be safe to go out, right?
In the face of the same life, choose a different attitude, and the realm is immediately different.
Of course, everyone has times when they are feeling down, and when it comes to this, learn to talk to your heart. Two villains, one is a sane villain, the other is an emotional villain, and the rational villain asks the emotional villain:
Is that really the case?
Is it pertinent?
Are you thinking about only one aspect?
You bastard villain, why don't you think about it, which person is not difficult! Why do you think that other people's difficulties are light and light, and you can't stand it if you are a little bitter!"
To live, we must face reality, not just hope. People have many definitions of success, but this point is the same, that is, on the basis of their actual life, a little better than in the past, a little progress, it is considered success.
Many ordinary but strong people do not evade their responsibilities, do not ignore problems, and do what they should do.
Such a person is a very stubborn person.
But every stubborn and unyielding soul deserves praise.
It's not why, just for this stubbornness.
No matter how hard and tired I am, I feel normal, how can I get it!