Getting rid of the helping complex and respecting the fate of others has become an Internet buzzword. It conveys the message that the current situation of certain people is tied to their personal choices and efforts. Offering to help them may cause unnecessary trouble.
This is especially true in the field of education, and many teachers are well aware of it, especially in areas where the quality of the student population is relatively limited, and it may not be wise to take it too seriously.
For counselors, once they enter the workplace, they find that they are not as good as they should be, and the respect of higher vocational students for teachers seems to be reduced. A famous person once said that working as a counselor at the junior college level is the most relaxing and enjoyable job, because it is neither as high a threshold as in a high-level university, nor as stressful as a class teacher in a primary and secondary school.
On the face of it, it seems that the job of a counselor is only to check the dormitories and tardiness occasionally, and the benefits are richer than those of primary and secondary school teachers, especially during the holidays. It's great if you're young and still appreciate your students.
However, these are just wishful thinking about the dream job. In fact, whether or not a counselor's job is easy depends on a number of factors. Different from the doctoral education level requirement of Wuhan University to recruit counselors, counselors at the junior college stage, especially in vocational universities, need to have effective management tools. Don't assume that your academic strengths are strong enough to convince students to take the initiative to cooperate.
When a female counselor joined the company, she was deeply distressed. Although this job was not easy for her to obtain, she thought she could have a career that would be the envy of her family and friends. However, she found that becoming a counselor was far from easy.
A woman falls into insomnia and wonders why there is a general lack of respect for teachers among higher vocational students? While not expected to please, at least on the surface it deserves some recognition.
When she criticized the students who were absent from class and the chaotic environment during the class and dormitory inspections, the students seemed arrogant and did not care, even though the words were rigorous.
For those students who she thinks there is hope for improvement, she earnestly exhorts them to consider their future employment and work hard to perform in school. However, the other side sees this as a kind of "PUA".
Not only do these students lack respect for their teachers, but time will reveal the ending for them. Surprisingly, the sharer's experience resonated with his peers. Those regular college counselors with a strong sense of responsibility, even in vocational colleges, are not willing to despise serious work.
From the student's point of view, the teacher seems to be picking on them just for the sake of performance. Even with the increase in roll calls, students will still be talking behind their backs. Why are they so disrespectful to their teachers?
In reality, these students are inherently disrespectful of knowledge. It may be because they grew up in a relatively limited family environment and social circle. When they were young, their parents did not pay enough attention and education.
The degree to which knowledge is valued by the family is crucial, and this is not necessarily related to the educational background of the parents, but more depends on the vision of the family and the sense of responsibility of the parents. For example, some poor families are also aware of the importance of not being stingy when it comes to buying books and attending tutorials.
Some parents invisibly convey this concept to their children: no matter how good they are, it is useless, and they still have to work for a certain local boss after graduating from college. Students who grow up in this environment have no reverence for knowledge, so it is difficult for them to accept the teachings of their teachers.
Another counselor said bluntly that many higher vocational students have a contemptuous attitude towards teachers, they think that they can earn a monthly salary of 10,000 yuan after graduation, and even start a business to become a boss, and they look down on counselors with a monthly salary of several thousand.
When they actually participate in the double selection meeting, they find that most of the jobs they can find are workers or sales, and to get into the better big companies, they need to be at the top of the grades and get a recommendation from a counselor.
Vocational graduates have narrower career paths, so building a good relationship with a counselor can be helpful. Although junior college students are also regular college students, they have a strict distinction from undergraduate and graduate students in terms of nature and training objectives, and belong to higher vocational education, focusing on skill training, which is a higher level of secondary vocational education.
With the popularization of academic qualifications, the proportion of young people with university degrees is increasing. In many industries, the quality level is also showing an upward trend, however, at the same time, a large number of higher vocational graduates have fallen into the embarrassing situation of entering the low-end labor industry, which is a helpless phenomenon.
Of course, there are also some vocational graduates who have found satisfactory jobs, such as entering state-owned enterprises. However, through interviews with these students, the author found a common denominator, that is, they were usually successfully hired in their junior year through the school's internal referral list.
Such an opportunity requires at least two conditions to be met, namely good academic performance and excellent performance. The former depends on the individual's study efforts, and it is enough to take the final exam seriously. The latter, on the other hand, relies on the evaluation of the counselor.
【Summary】People with a heart have an eye on the future development path from the beginning of their freshman year. Vocational students face restrictions on the conditions for applying for exams and applications in some fields. Therefore, striving to obtain the qualification of the school when you graduate has become a shortcut to get your dream job.
Although some counselors may disagree with their behavior, it is not advisable to offend the teacher by acting rashly. Maintaining a good relationship is more conducive to obtaining employment information and recommending qualifications in the future.