Text: Marriage counselor Liu Jie
Love is beautiful and sweet. In love, each of us hopes to meet the right person, and we hope that we will not be disappointed and have the purest love.
This is especially true for women who see love as a "top priority". They want to be loved deeply, to be cherished, to be held in the heart of a man, in the palm of their hand.
So, how can you tell if a man really cares about you? In fact, the answer is hidden in his daily behavior and attitude.
Below, let's talk about six manifestations of a man caring about a woman.
Performance 1: Care about your daily life
A man who genuinely cares about you will care about your every move.
He will ask you what you have eaten today, whether your work is going well, and even how you are feeling today.
This kind of care is not an occasional greeting, but is integrated into every daily life you get along.
Just like the writer Sanmao said: "Loving someone will be humbled to the dust, and then blossom." ”
He will care about your little bits, because your happiness and sorrow touch his heart.
Performance 2: Respect your choices and decisions
A man who cares about you will respect your wishes and choices.
He will not impose his own ideas on you, but will think from your perspective and support your decision.
He will understand your pursuits, respect your circle of friends, and even when you disagree, he will listen patiently instead of insisting.
This respect is actually a manifestation of his deep love for you.
Performance 3: Willing to give you time and energy
Where time is spent, our hearts are there.
A man who is willing to spend time and energy for you undoubtedly cares about you.
He will often put some of his own things off just to spend a good afternoon with you, and he will prepare a good dinner for you after his busy work.
He is telling you by his actions that in his heart, you are more important than anything else.
Performance 4: Show up when you need it
There will always be a lot of unsatisfactory in life, and there will be many grievances and difficulties.
A man who cares about you, he will be there when you need him most. No matter what kind of wind and rain you encounter, he is willing to be the umbrella behind you.
He will do his best to help you solve the problem and make you feel safe. This feeling of being guarded is actually his sincerity in caring about you.
Performance 5: Share his life with you
When a man is willing to share with you his life, his joys and sorrows, and even the secrets of his heart.
This is enough to show that he has treated you as the closest person.
He will take you to meet his friends, introduce you to his family, and let you into his life, instead of hiding you from others for fear of being seen.
He does all this because he cares about you and wants to go all the way with you.
Performance 6: Better for you
A man who really cares about you, he will change for you, get better, and work harder.
He will break some bad habits or things that make you feel uncomfortable, he will become cheerful, make himself more interesting, etc.
These changes are not only for himself, but also for the sake of getting along better with you. Because in his eyes, you are the best, and he wants to give you the best of himself.
Love is not a vigorous moment, but a long stream of companionship.
A man who really cares about you, his love will permeate every detail of life. He will tell you by his actions how important you are to him.
Maybe he doesn't say too many sweet words, but his every move is telling you, "I love you".
True love is not made by words, but by practical actions.
If you have such a man by your side, please be sure to cherish him. Because in this world, it is really a rare luck to meet someone who cares about you so much.
May everyone who is looking for love be able to find the person who really cares about themselves, and may your love last forever.