Text: Marriage counselor Liu Jie
On the stage of love, every woman hopes to become, the star that shines the brightest in the eyes of men, so that men willingly stay by their side.
However, different women will use different methods. Some are flattering and bottomless giving, lest men will stay away. Some are deliberately tempting to create a sense of crisis for a man and make him dare not leave.
There are also others, they will use a more intelligent way, without humility or temptation, to make men die by her side, and they are not willing to leave at all.
Let's take a look at the 4 ways to make a man inseparable from you, which works.
01
Get to know him better and become a bosom friend
Do you know that deep down, a man actually longs for a woman who can really understand him.
Therefore, if you want a man to be inseparable from you, you must first become his "bosom friend".
That is, you have to get to know his personality, his preferences, his dreams, and even his little habits.
When you know him better than he does, you can give him the understanding he needs most at critical moments.
For example, when he is facing a dilemma at work, you can be the person he confides in, or you can be a "think tank" for him.
When he talks about childhood dreams, you can be the one who encourages him to rekindle the fire of his dreams.
In this way, your position in his heart will become more and more important, and he will naturally not be able to leave you.
As Mr. Lu Xun said: "It is enough to have a confidant in life, and the world should treat it with the same heart." ”
Becoming a man's bosom friend is the first step to make him inseparable from you.
02
Show your independence and charisma
For most men, they prefer independent and attractive women.
A woman who relies on others for everything and has no opinions of her own will only make men feel bored.
So, you have to keep yourself independent and have a unique personal charm so that he can see that you are a thoughtful and capable woman.
For example, you can show your abilities at work and let him see your value, and you can also develop some hobbies in your spare time, such as painting, music, reading, etc., which can increase your personal charm.
When you become good enough and attractive, men will naturally be firmly attracted to you and will not be able to leave.
Mr. Yang Jiang once said: "The most beautiful scenery in life is the calmness and calmness of the heart." ”
An independent and attractive woman, it is with this calmness and calmness that men can fall for it.
03
Gentle and considerate, empathetic
Men working hard outside will inevitably encounter all kinds of setbacks and difficulties.
At this time, what he needs most is the gentleness, thoughtfulness and understanding of a woman. A hug from you, a word of comfort, can be his warm strength.
For example, when he comes home exhausted, you can prepare him a hot cup of tea or massage his shoulder. These small gestures can make him feel your love for him.
When he is surrounded by your gentleness and understanding, he will naturally cherish you more and be more inseparable from you.
Turgenev once said: "Love is a pure, beautiful, noble feeling." ”
And gentleness, thoughtfulness and empathy are the heaviest and most exciting parts of love.
04
Give him plenty of space and freedom
Love is like sand in your hand, the tighter you hold it, the faster it will drain away.
If you want a man to be inseparable from you, it is not to keep him firmly by your side, but to give him enough space and freedom.
Because, everyone has their own circles and interests, and you have to learn to respect his life.
For example, you can support him when he wants to go out with his friends. When he wants to pursue his career dreams, you can also be his strong back.
Then, he will feel your understanding and cherish the time with you even more.
Rabindranath Tagore once said, "If you weep for missing the sun, you will miss the stars too." ”
In love, giving each other some space and freedom may make you miss some short-term pleasures, but it can make you reap more long-term happiness.
If you want a man to be inseparable from you, remember the above methods and use them in your relationship.
Please believe that as long as you work hard, you will be able to reap sweet love.