Text: Marriage counselor Liu Jie
The relationship between husband and wife can sometimes be both strong and fragile.
In the face of the ups and downs of life, we can be fearless and never give up. But every word and deed in daily life can also accumulate into resentment, and eventually become the reason for going their separate ways.
Don't think that as long as you get married, you can go for a lifetime, and you can tell each other everything unscrupulously. There are some words that can warm the other person's heart, and there are some words that may hurt the feelings of two people.
Therefore, if we want the relationship between husband and wife to be consistent, we must say more words of warmth to make the marriage stronger.
Especially for wives, learning to say these three words to your husband will not only make your relationship sweeter, but also make him feel more sorry for you.
01
"You've worked hard, husband. ”
Men work hard outside the home, and they pay a lot for marriage.
For most families, men carry the financial burden of the family. In order to give their families a better life, they worked hard and hard.
As a wife, the sentence "You have worked hard, husband." "It is not only a recognition of his efforts, but also an affirmation and appreciation for him.
A simple sentence can make him feel the warmth of home and your understanding.
Hu Shi once said: "The happiness of a family often depends on the mutual understanding and support between husband and wife. ”
When you say this, you are sending support and understanding to him.
Let him know that no matter how difficult the outside world is, there is always a lamp left for him at home, and there is always someone who silently supports him.
02
"Thank you, husband. ”
Between people, being grateful can make the effort more worthwhile and the relationship closer.
In married life, your husband does a lot of things for you. For example, helping you with household chores, taking care of children, being there for you when you are sick, etc.
Although this is a small thing in getting along, you must see your husband's dedication and be grateful.
A simple "thank you, husband" can make him feel your heart and warm his tiredness.
Such words of gratitude will not only show your sincerity, but also motivate him to continue to give more for you and your family.
As the ancients said: "The grace of a drop of water should be reciprocated by a spring." ”
Your gratitude will inspire him to have more sense of responsibility and make him cherish your marriage even more.
03
"I love you, husband. ”
The basis of marriage is love, and because of love, we are willing to walk together and accompany each other to the end of the day.
Therefore, in the relationship between husband and wife, expressing love anytime and anywhere is the key to making the marriage happy.
Some wives may feel that saying things like "I love you" after getting married is too numb. Or they are all old husbands and wives, there is no need to talk about it.
In fact, no matter how long you have been married, love needs to be constantly expressed and maintained.
A sentence of "I love you, husband" can make him feel your deep affection and increase the intimacy between you.
Love mentor Tu Lei once said: "Love needs to be expressed, either in words or in action." ”
Generally speaking, words are the most direct and simple way to express themselves. So, don't be stingy with your expression of love and let your husband feel your love at all times.
Of course, in addition to the above three sentences, there are many warm words that can express love for your husband.
As a wife, learning to say these words more can make your husband feel more sorry for you and cherish you. At the same time, remember to support and understand him with actions.
Only in this way can you walk through every happy moment hand in hand and make your marriage sweeter and sweeter.