Text: Marriage counselor Liu Jie
The ancients said: The mouth can spit out roses, and it can also spit out thistles.
Everyone has a mouth, and it can speak true, good, and beautiful words, such as spitting fragrant, and it can also speak evil words, such as spitting and salivating.
Every word we say not only reflects a person's upbringing, determines a person's popularity, but also affects a person's blessings.
Therefore, speaking well is a compulsory course in a person's life!
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The life of your mouth is your life
Many people may not know that what we say is actually just the tip of the iceberg, and there are some things hidden under the iceberg that we are not aware of.
What you say is what kind of person you are. And your life is shaped by what you say.
The "Law of Attraction" tells us that everything that happens in your life is what you attract. A person who complains every day attracts people who love to complain, because people will sense each other.
If you speak disrespectfully and always say some negative things, in fact, you are complaining about the life you have, on the contrary, if you can be grateful for life, then life will also give you more bright sunshine.
So, what you say, whether positive or negative, will ultimately affect your life.
Cai Kangyong once said: "The more you can speak, the happier others will be, and the happier others will be, the more they will like you; the more people like you, the more help you will get, and the happier you will be." ”
The so-called high emotional intelligence is to know how to speak well.
Only by expressing one's heart honestly, respecting others, and having good intentions, can the words spoken make people feel like a spring breeze and make the other party have a sense of trust.
Speak well, every word we say is directed by the heart. What you think in your heart, you say in your mouth.
There is a saying in the "Dharma Sentence Sutra": "If you do evil, you will get evil, like a seed of suffering, and evil will suffer from sin, and there will be no happiness in the end." In other words, if a person does evil, he will reap the consequences.
Therefore, our mouth is the door to accumulate good fortune for ourselves.
The life in your mouth is your life, and speaking well is to change your fate.
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The life in your mouth hides your feng shui
Life is made by oneself, each other is born from the heart, the environment changes with the heart, and tolerance is great.
A person's destiny is, to put it bluntly, the person's accumulation of good fortune.
In the house of goodness, there will be afterglow. When a person begins to accumulate virtue, it is the beginning of transshipment.
Don't underestimate a mouth, it can help you accumulate virtue, but it can also make you lose virtue. Whether it is to accumulate virtue for the benefit or harm oneself and others is often just a thought.
Practice a rich mouth, do not expose people's shortcomings, do not talk nonsense, do not say right and wrong, so that you can keep good fortune and change your fate.
A black taxi driver was carrying a white mother and son, and on the way, the child asked the mother, "Why does the driver's uncle have different skin than ours?"
The mother smiled and replied, "Because God wants to make the world rich, He has created people of different colors!"
When he arrived at his destination, the black driver was adamant that he would not take money, saying: "When I was a child, I asked my mother this question, but she said that we were black and destined to be inferior. If my mother had said these things like you, maybe I wouldn't be in this situation now......"
As the saying goes: "A good word is warm in three winters, and a bad word is hurtful and cold in June." "When you say good words, it warms people's hearts, but when you say evil words, it makes people's hearts cold.
To raise a rich mouth is to raise a kind heart and a good feng shui for a lifetime.
People who can talk make people forget it for a lifetime, and people who can't speak will hurt people for a lifetime.
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Your mouth is your Feng Shui
Speaking reflects a person's upbringing and quality, good words can make people feel warm, and bad words can make people feel cold.
We always think that our words won't do much harm to others, especially when we speak to strangers. But, you don't know, your casual words can change someone else's life.
There was a boy who had a very low self-esteem since he was a child because of his ugly appearance.
One day, he walked to a bridge and saw an old man sitting on the railing of the bridge. Out of concern, he asked the old man what he was doing sitting there.
The old man turned around and said, "It's nothing, I'm just here to look at the scenery, and I'll jump off after a while." The boy was startled and hurried to persuade the old man.
The old man said, "No one likes me, they all think I'm old and ugly, and living only causes trouble for others." ”
The boy's heart moved, as if he were talking about himself. So he said to the old man, "Although I am also ugly, we should all live well and live beautifully!"
The old man looked at him in surprise and suddenly smiled: "You're right, I won't look for a short time again." ”
Later, the boy learned that the old man was actually a well-known local professor, and he had the idea of suicide when he was in a bad mood that day, but the boy's words made him feel the beauty of life.
Because of one sentence, I saved a life and gave myself hope.
The power of words is immense, and it can not only affect our emotions and mindsets, but also change our destiny and life.
Therefore, speaking well is our lifelong practice.
May you and I cultivate a soft heart, speak gentle words, and make life better because of your words.