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Preface
A director and a masterpiece, even if it is popular all over the country, it is difficult to escape the criticism of "yellow jokes". However, Er Dongsheng's "demon" does not stop there, and his love life is even more crazy to the point of amazement. From first love to mature age, from "golden boy and girl" to "scumbag" husband, he is simply the "prodigal son" in the ocean of love. Today, let's explore the secret private life of this "prodigal son in love"!
1. The bitter drama of the golden boy and the girl
In 1957, Er Dongsheng was born in a famous performing arts family in Hong Kong. After 12 years, he finally entered the Shaw Brothers Film Company at the age of 18 and co-starred with his first girlfriend Yu Anan in the film and television drama "The Sword of the Third Young Master". At that time, the two looked like each other and were known as the "Golden Boy and Jade Girl", but who would have expected that the later development would be ridiculous.
It didn't take long for the relationship between the two to be opposed by the crew. What's even more ridiculous is that others are full of expectations for their future "Dragon and Phoenix Chengxiang", but Yu Anan's parents are firmly opposed. Until 1979, under pressure from the outside world, the two broke up with difficulty, and Yu Anan finally married the popular movie star Chow Yun-fat.
Even though he was hit by a breakup, Er Dongsheng did not give up his feelings. In 1981, he directed the funny martial arts film "Owl" for the first time. However, after receiving a good word-of-mouth response, the box office of the film was quite dismal. It was also during this low period that this "prodigal son in love" met the next relationship in his life.
2. Maggie Cheung's "rich son" complex
After leaving Shaw Brothers, Er Dongsheng entered a new stage of his career. In 1987, at the age of 30, he met Maggie Cheung, who was 7 years younger than him. At that time, Maggie Cheung had just turned 24 years old and was heading towards the peak of Xiao Han's career. The two hit it off at first sight, and Maggie Cheung was soon attracted by Er Dongsheng's artistic accomplishment of "Sao Operation".
Soon, the two fell into a whirlpool of love. However, this relationship is also destined to die in the end. Maggie Cheung, a "rich girl" from a wealthy family, has high requirements for the quality of life, while Er Dongsheng, as a pure artist, is often negligent in the details.
Gradually, the difference in the life style of the two led to the escalation of the conflict, and finally had to break up. However, Er Dongsheng, as a real "prodigal son in love", soon entered the next relationship.
3. Wang Ruixia, who was "disliked".
In 1995, Er Dongsheng, who was 38 years old at the time, met a young actress Wang Ruixia, who was 10 years younger than him. At that time, Wang Ruixia had just resigned from TVB and was at a low point in her life. And it was the addition of Er Dongsheng, a "wild" artist, that gave her a new impetus for life.
The two soon brewed a relationship and eventually moved towards marriage. However, the artistic couple did not stay together for long, and the two announced their divorce half a year later.
Judging from Er Dongsheng's past, he will always stay in the stage of "artistic feelings", romantic and casual. And Wang Ruixia, as a sensitive and suspicious woman, yearns more for safety and care in her married life.
It is easy to imagine that if two people with such differences get along for a long time, they will inevitably be incompatible. Sure enough, in just half a year, the spark was completely extinguished. After the breakup, Wang Ruixia once complained deeply, she disliked Er Dongsheng for always drinking and gambling, and doing nothing all day. It seems that she really can't stand the attitude of this "prodigal son" to life.
4. "Betrayal" of his ex-wife
After several failed relationships, Er Dongsheng finally met his last wife, ordinary kindergarten teacher Luo Xiaowen, in 1999. At that time, Er Dongsheng was 42 years old, and Luo Xiaowen was only 29 years old.
The two met, knew each other, and fell in love with each other, and experienced a 9-year love process. During this period, Er Dongsheng took great care of Luo Xiaowen, and finally tied the knot in 2008. But who would have expected that the later development of this pair of beautiful people would be ridiculous.
After getting married, Er Dongsheng made an unreasonable request to Luo Xiaowen: he wanted to live a "Dink" life with his wife and never have children. Although he was very unwilling in his heart, Luo Xiaowen still agreed out of respect for his lover.
Just when Luo Xiaowen was wholeheartedly maintaining this marriage, Er Dongsheng's "prodigal son" nature began to slowly reveal again. In 2017, after only 9 years of marriage, Er Dongsheng was revealed to have a physical relationship with a young woman, which eventually led to the woman's pregnancy and childbirth.
For Luo Xiaowen, this is simply a slap in the face! She never expected that her seemingly happy marriage would not escape the pain of being "cheated". With nowhere to vent his inner anger and sense of betrayal, Luo Xiaowen could only choose to apply for divorce from the court alone in 2017.
In this way, a married life that seemed to have a good start was finally wasted because of Er Dongsheng's greed. After the divorce, Luo Xiaowen almost fell into the lowest point in her life, she held a grudge against this man and was in pain.
In stark contrast, Er Dongsheng not only has a successful career, has directed many blockbuster movies, but also has a happy family life. In 2018, at the age of 61, he generously admitted that he had a daughter with Xiao San, and loved his daughter strictly, which can be described as a model of a "scumbag" husband.
6. Luo Xiaowen, the "leftover girl" who lost her beloved
Today's Luo Xiaowen is 55 years old, his career is in a slump, and there is a serious fault in his love life. She could have relied on her own ability to make a difference in the workplace, but she was deeply hurt by Er Dongsheng, the "prodigal son", when she was young, and exhausted all her energy.
After the divorce, Luo Xiaowen has not been able to regain her single life, she tried to fall in love with others, but all failed. Seeing that her peers have entered the stage of "enjoying the old man's life", she is still distressed by the pain she once had.
The outside world has always scoffed at Er Dongsheng's actions, thinking that he is a typical "scumbag". But no matter how bad the society's reputation for him is, he at least has a successful career and a happy life. Luo Xiaowen, on the other hand, suffered the pain of being betrayed, and finally became a "leftover girl".
Is this a fair result? Should every former "scumbag" pay the price for his past behavior? It is difficult for us to give an accurate answer, but at least in Luo Xiaowen's heart, she will never forgive Er Dongsheng, the "prodigal son in love" who hurt her.
7. Cherish the people in front of you and avoid harm
After reading the lifelong emotional experience of Er Dongsheng, the "prodigal son in love", we can't help but feel sad for Luo Xiaowen's experience. What a poignant scene for a woman who should have spent her old age happily, but fell into a low point in her life because of the cruel blow of marriage!
Of course, we don't have the right to comment too much on other people's family affairs, but Er Dongsheng does have too many things to be criticized for his conduct and behavior. As a man, he should respect every woman around him, and he should also be consistent and wholehearted to his wife.
However, the reality is that he has lived a profligate life since he was young, and later hurt his closest lovers. Such behavior cannot be forgiven at any time. Therefore, everyone must learn a lesson, cherish the people in front of them, and avoid trauma to others.
Only when both men and women have sincere love and treat each other with sincere actions can they truly build a happy relationship. Let's feel sad for Luo Xiaowen's experience, and hope that she can let go of the past and embrace a new life!