It stands to reason that when people reach the age of 50, they have already had a lot of experience and should be confident about life. But in fact, many people still have anxiety.
For example, anxious about how your old age will be, anxious about your children, and so on.
These are very real problems.
Life cannot be perfect, and we cannot solve all problems.
But as long as these three things are done, we will have a good life in the future.
01 No shortage of money
In reality, people can have all kinds of fantasies and pursuits about life. But all this, please build on a solid foundation.
The simplest point is money.
When people reach their fifties, if they can rely on themselves, they can obtain a solid economic foundation.
Even if there are still troubles in life in the future, they are still troubles like floating clouds. Instead of heart-wrenching annoyance.
This is quite practical. It should also be taken seriously.
We don't want to have the smell of copper, it's not that we only love money. It's about not shying away from the security that money brings us.
I've seen relatives who started working as full-time housewives shortly after giving birth.
Then, after all kinds of bad things, I started to make money again.
To be honest, it is unrealistic to expect others to support you.
Moreover, in many families around them, the elderly have to give subsidies to their children, rather than their children, to support the elderly and be filial.
It is enough to see that it is not realistic to expect children to receive pension subsidies. It's still up to you.
If you are over fifty, it may be the last golden time in the workplace, please don't waste it.
Don't worry too much about others, just think about yourself.
Provide a solid foundation for your old age.
02 There is no shortage of love
To live, people do not only live by eating, drinking, and Lazar, but also need someone to love and care.
We may need the care of a spouse, the love of a child. These are all important.
However, not everyone has such blessings.
So at this stage, learning to love yourself and not expect others to love you is an important lesson in life.
What does it mean to love yourself for a fifty-year-old?
For example, know to go to the hospital regularly and respect the results of medical check-ups. Eat healthy and exercise regularly.
Also, know to save money for yourself. If you can afford to spend, you can afford it, and let yourself enjoy some of it, rather than blindly saving money.
It's not that all the money is subsidized to the children, resulting in no money for their own medical treatment.
When a person reaches fifty, he must learn to become a "whole person" and have the ability to love himself.
Don't expect others to solve your own life problems. Instead, figure it out yourself.
Don't give your own resources to others.
A person who does not love himself is easily attracted by the cheap love of others, and thus loses a lot.
Cause regret.
03 There is no shortage of time
When people are over 50, they should understand that life is impermanent.
He may be in impermanence and die soon. It may be impermanence in other ways.
In that case, take advantage of the present to give yourself some free time. In this way, you can try to live a happy life.
For example, we all have experienced: many times, we don't have the energy to do what we want to do.
If you want to go outdoors, you can't move without physical strength. I want to learn something, but I feel sleepy.
In fact, to put it bluntly, it is a lack of time and energy.
When people are over 50, they should appropriately reduce their social interactions, appropriately reduce their work, and save some time.
These things ensure that we have the energy to try new things and gain new happiness.
It is a guarantee to improve the quality of life.