Everyone knows that having money is a great guarantee for providing for the elderly in old age. If you don't have money, don't talk about everything.
But in fact, having money does not mean that you will be happy in your old age. Life is never so simple.
For example, family relationships, such as personal health, which does not matter?
These 3 "back roads" must be there when providing for the elderly. It's critical.
01 Be healthy
In reality, if people want to maintain a certain quality of life in life, they must be healthy.
Otherwise, you can't eat anything, you can't go anywhere. Is it rich for nothing?
For example, some elderly people are getting older, and they have to start avoiding food early and can't eat anything.
Since then, the pleasure of food has been reduced by more than half, isn't it painful?
There are also elderly people, who are even more miserable, with broken knees and hips, and difficulty moving.
It is very difficult to go downstairs every day, do you still expect him to go out for a walk and travel everywhere?
It simply can't be done.
You can't count on your children every day and push them out of the house.
Children also have their own jobs and lives to be busy.
When people reach old age, in addition to financial guarantees, the most important thing to pay attention to is health.
Physical and mental health.
Good health, all parts are good to use.
Mental health, which can keep emotions stable.
These are the keys to a good life.
02 Understanding "Separation of Issues"
In fact, the reason why many elderly people are not living well enough and not comfortable enough is because they do not know how to "separate topics".
In other words: the boundaries between people are not clear, and the problems that lead to increase are increased.
Think of life as a subject. It is enough for each of us to deal with our own life issues.
Your relative's problem, your children's problem, your downstairs neighbor's problem, that's their business.
To put it bluntly, it has nothing to do with you.
You don't need to force yourself and contribute money and efforts. There is no need to act as a trash can to listen to them pour bitter water.
Not to mention that you don't need to report to them, your own business.
These things, people who are not clear about sorting out, will be very troublesome.
To live, people must have a free and easy.
Take care of your own business, not other people's business.
Don't spend your time and energy where it's not appropriate.
That's very unwise for yourself.
You know, even if you have the money and time, others may not necessarily say hello.
Isn't it?
Moreover, there are more interpersonal contacts, and all kinds of troubles are naturally more, which is not good.
03 Possess sufficient social experience
In reality, we must have a clear enough understanding of people and society, which is a guarantee for happiness in old age.
Some of our friends have too little understanding of human nature and do not know enough about society.
So even if you have a little pension money, you can't keep it, which is a pity.
For example, around us, we have always heard of the fact that the money we have saved so hard has been taken away, right?
It may be a child's work, or a sibling's work. The reasons in the middle are hard to explain. It's very heart-wrenching to hear.
It can be said that if you lack the understanding of human nature, you will not be able to keep your money.
The property in the hands of a person is only one of the guarantees of life in old age.
It is also important to separate health and issues.
If you can't have a clear understanding, you still can't keep your money. Are you right?
When people reach old age, it is necessary to enhance their abilities in these aspects to help themselves and spend their old age in peace.