The cheating man wants to divorce and marry the mistress, how can the wife dispel his idea of divorce and solve the extramarital affair?
The vast majority of men don't really want to divorce and marry a mistress.
They may give Xiao San a similar promise, but they have no such intention in their hearts.
After all, the cost of divorce is too high for many people to afford.
But there are always exceptions to everything, and there are many men who insist on divorce and marry a mistress after cheating.
These cheating men are mainly in these situations, and the original partner needs to understand clearly and then think of countermeasures.
How to prescribe the right medicine to dispel the idea of divorce for men.
First of all, you have to know why a man wants to divorce for the sake of the mistress.
In the first case, the cheating man is a love brain, and he is true love for the mistress.
A cheating man is an emotionally oriented man who will make irrational choices for the sake of feelings.
To put it simply, the cheating man is a love brain, and he thinks that he and Xiao San are true love.
Or that the cheating man is not so in love, but it is easy to fall for it.
When you are insane, you will completely ignore your interests and insist on divorce emotionally.
Wives have to distinguish whether a cheating man is in love or a short-term brain madness.
If the cheating man is a love brain, what the wives have to do is to destroy the love between the cheating man and the mistress.
The cheating man really loves the mistress, so does the mistress love the cheating man?
How to make a cheating man feel that the mistress doesn't love cheating men so much and separates the relationship between the two.
If the original partner can study this clearly, you will be able to dispel the determination of the man who cheats on the love brain to divorce.
Most cheating men are not pure love brains, they are only short-lived brain insane.
Love comes quickly, and vigorously, but it doesn't last long.
To deal with this kind of cheating man, wives must be able to hold on.
A cheating man will do a lot of things in order to divorce, and it will also hurt his wife.
Wives stabilize their minds, you don't get angry and painful because of the behavior of a cheating man.
Don't impulsively agree to the divorce that the man says, and wait for the cheating man's cerebral insane period to pass.
It will be easy to solve the problem of men cheating and getting divorced.
In the second case, the junior can bring benefits, and the cheating man is driven by interests.
Not all juniors, they are all not good at their own conditions, and they live a good life by being juniors.
Now many juniors, on the contrary, are very good in their own conditions.
The reason for being a junior is because they feel that cheating men are their true love.
For the sake of love, he is not moral, and he can also post a cheating man upside down.
The temptation of this kind of junior to a cheating man is very great,
Because the cheating man can get the love of the mistress, and it is profitable.
Therefore, it is very likely that a cheating man will choose to divorce his original partner for the sake of love and interests.
The original partner wants to solve this extramarital affair and dispel the idea of divorce from men.
You have to let the cheating man know what he needs to give.
The junior is good everywhere, why should he be a cheating man as a third party, why wait for a second marriage?
The junior loves, the junior himself is willing, is the junior parents willing?
Find help and let the cheating man know that an extramarital affair brings more than benefits, but more pain, and he will not insist on divorce.
In the third case, the junior has the handle of the cheating man, and the cheating man has to give in.
Extramarital affairs in the workplace are the most likely to occur, and the situation where the mistress catches the handle of the cheating man.
Cheating men are threatened, in order to keep their careers, or their reputation and interests,
had to choose to be obedient to the junior, and divorced the original partner to marry the junior.
Cheating men are reluctant to divorce, and this situation is beneficial to the original partner.
The current mention is that the original partner can analyze the psychology of the cheating man and communicate frankly with the cheating man.
Understand the real reason, instead of blindly embarrassing the cheating man.
If the cheating man is really forced by the mistress, the original partner can completely help the cheating man solve the extramarital affair.
As long as the cheating man is not threatened by the mistress, he will naturally not divorce easily.
But with the help of the original partner, don't be in front of yourself, you have to let the cheating man and the mistress fully tear each other apart.
The cheating man only has resentment towards the mistress, and the extramarital affair can be completely ended.
In the fourth case, the marital relationship has broken down, and the cheating man takes the mistress as a retreat.
There are some men who cheat just to find a way out.
They are cheating on the idea of divorce and marrying the mistress.
So they found a junior who satisfied them, and his relationship with the junior was stable.
The cheating man will start to prepare for the divorce and marry the mistress, and the cheating man will insist on divorce.
Wives who want to stop cheating men need to start from two aspects.
On the one hand, you have to destroy the relationship between the cheating man and the mistress.
A cheating man doesn't have to marry a mistress, and even thinks that mistress is not a good choice, so he will give up.
The junior puts forward too many requirements for marriage, which can help the original partner achieve this effect.
The original partners can guide the mistress, stimulate the mistress, and raise the threshold for marriage.
On the other hand, starting from the relationship between husband and wife, why do men want to divorce.
What are the problems in the marriage, and whether the relationship between husband and wife is still likely to be repaired.
If anything, the wives solve the marital problems and repair the relationship between the husband and wife.
If a cheating man and a mistress have problems, they will be more inclined to return to the family.
Regardless of which situation the original partner encounters, what you need to do is make your own choice.
Don't see if the cheating man and the mistress are true love, whether they are interested in a relationship.
Wives think more about yourself first, whether you want to divorce or not, and whether you have the need to recover.
According to your own situation, after making the choice you want, analyze how to achieve the goal.
Otherwise, if you feel that you are cheating on the man and the mistress from the beginning, it will be difficult for you to make a choice that is really beneficial to you.
Make a choice first, and then work towards the goal, even if you fail in the follow-up, at least you have tried, and you will be more willing to give up.
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