Text/Xia Mo
01, frontispiece
When I fell in love, I thought that it would be ten thousand years at a glance.
No matter what kind of wind and rain they encounter in the future, the two people will firmly grasp each other's hands and walk together.
Later, I learned that love, like food, will spoil.
Shakespeare said, "The bright color of love and the warmth of the heart will be changed by hardship." ”
Some men betray their wives and families in their marriages. Neither his wife nor his children, in his world, seem to have become unimportant.
When a man betrays his marriage, he will try to hide his behavior. Because, he wants a stable family, and he also wants love outside of marriage.
A man betrays you, even if he doesn't say it, the following actions cannot be concealed.
02, you need company, but he is never missing
Love takes time to maintain.
Man, if he really loves you, he will be willing to spend time with you and be willing to accompany you.
Only when he is no longer in love, he will reclaim his time.
The wife of one of my clients recently made a big fuss at his company. It turned out that he betrayed her.
The woman outside of marriage was his secretary.
When his wife went to the company to make trouble, he tried his best to cover it up for himself, saying that he was just busy with work and had no time to accompany her, so he asked her to stop making trouble.
The wife said, "Yes, you are very busy, busy going shopping, going to the movies, going on a business trip with her...... After saying that, she threw a stack of photos on the table.
The customer was also fired by the company because of his behavior.
When a man betrays you, his time will be spent on you very little.
When you want him to accompany him, he says he's busy, and the child wants him to stay with him, but he says he's going to be on a business trip for a few days......
In short, day to night, all year round, it seems that he can't be seen.
After a man betrays his marriage, he will have less and less time left for the family. In particular, the time spent with his wife is almost non-existent.
A man loves you, he will take care of his family, he will spend time with his wife, he will be willing to take care of the needs of the family, and he will shoulder the responsibility on his shoulders.
03. The attitude towards you is becoming more and more perfunctory, and I no longer care about it
The more a man loves you, the more willing he will be to pay attention to you.
In the TV series "Thirty Only", after Xu Huanshan fell in love with Lin Youyou, his attitude towards his wife changed dramatically.
The wife is very virtuous, can discipline the children, can help the company with business, and can also keep the house in order.
Originally, Xu Huanshan's arrangements for his wife were almost all obedient.
Since he met Lin Youyou, he began to perfunctory his wife. She often doesn't take what she says to heart, and he often doesn't see what she does.
Holding the phone at home and giggling, the time to come home is getting later and later.
Shakespeare said, "True love cannot be expressed in words, but deeds are the best expression of faithfulness." ”
If a man really doesn't love you, his attitude towards you will change most directly.
A man who loves you, in life, will take care of your feelings with his heart, and he will manage the relationship between two people with his heart.
In order to get along better, he is willing to accommodate you and compromise for you.
However, if a man doesn't love you anymore and betrays you, what he says to you, what he plans for you, what he says to you, and his attitude towards you will become very perfunctory.
If you are no longer in his heart, he will naturally not be attentive to you.
If he doesn't love you, he will start to snub you and push you out of his world.
04. Summary
Betrayal of marriage is like an axe that will shatter the trust between husband and wife.
Elizabeth Bertrand said, "Once trust is betrayed, even the greatest love can turn into torture." ”
Men, no matter how much your wife loves you, no matter how strong the relationship between you is, never test the bottom line of marriage, and don't touch the red line of marriage.
You know, betrayal is the bottom line for women. Once betrayed, a woman's heart will wither in an instant, and she will no longer be able to love.
The road ahead is long. Cherish the person who loves you and go together for the rest of your life.
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Author: Xia Mo, a cutting-edge emotional tutor, a psychology scholar, a popular emotional writer with more than 1 billion people on the whole network, a happy woman manager, focusing on emotion, sexes, and mother-in-law and daughter-in-law for more than ten years.