Text/Xia Mo
01, frontispiece
Love is like a song.
People who are in love with each other will sing a cheerful, sweet taste. And those who can't love will sing full of sorrow and loss.
Shakespeare said, "Love is a sweet pain, and sincere love never takes a smooth path." ”
People who pay their hearts hope that their lives will be treated well, cared for, and sweetly accompanied to old age.
However, life has gradually worn out the enthusiasm and sweetness of love.
In life, if you want to judge whether a man loves you or not, in fact, the eyes know.
02. The man who loves you is full of your advantages
My parents-in-law once told me that they had been together all their lives and had never quarreled.
My father-in-law is a military veteran, and I knew that I had made my mother-in-law wait for him too long. After they got married, he spoiled her for ten years.
In his eyes, she is gentle and kind, and no one can compare with her.
Even now, even though she is old, she is still the most beautiful and lovely in his eyes.
Bacon said: "Love is like keeping a sum of money in a bank, appreciating the good in the other person, like supplementing income, tolerating the other person's shortcomings, which is moderation in spending." The so-called eternal love is from red face love to white hair, from flower blossom love to flower remnant. ”
If a man loves you, he will always see the good in you in life.
Perhaps, you will nag, you will also get angry, and you will have many shortcomings. However, in his eyes, none of this is worth mentioning.
The good things in you can overshadow all the bad things in you.
If a man loves you, he will magnify all your shortcomings and shortcomings. When he looks at you, he thinks you're good.
03. The more a man loves you, the more he can see what you think from the bottom of your heart
In the TV series "Walking with the Phoenix", after Xingzhi fell in love with Shen Li, his world changed dramatically.
He can't be emotional, and he is burdened with the responsibility of guarding the Three Realms. For this reason, he restrained and forbeared, not wanting to tell his friendship.
Shen Li is also burdened with her mission, even if she loves him to the core, she is reluctant to say it.
However, Xingzhi silently guarded her, and he knew what she thought. Even if she didn't say anything, he could see the bottom of her heart at a glance. She always stepped up to the plate when she needed help.
A man doesn't love you, he never sees what you need, what emotions you have.
A man who loves you will see your inner world at a glance.
Even if you refrain and don't say anything, he still knows what you think.
When a man loves you, he will pay attention to your needs, care about your thoughts, and take into account your feelings.
04. The man who loves you will always have life in his eyes
When two people are together, there are indelible trivialities in life. In the firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea, there is endless work hidden.
Before, a best friend of mine said that she has been married for ten years, as if she was married to a "hands-off shopkeeper".
Men don't care about family affairs. Even the children, he did not have the patience to accompany them.
Naturally, what she wanted, he never knew.
Later, she found out that he had betrayed his marriage, and she realized that a man had no life in his eyes, no sense of responsibility, and no care for his family because he didn't love him.
A man doesn't love you, and no matter how many things there are at home, he will ignore them, feeling that the affairs at home have nothing to do with him.
He is used to enjoying his wife's dedication and is used to putting his feelings first.
The man who loves you, no matter how busy and tired he is, there will always be life in his eyes.
He will understand your hard work, see your efforts, and will try his best to bear the trivialities of life. When you see what you haven't done, you will take it silently, so that you can get a better rest.
The man who loves you has life in his eyes because he understands you and is willing to take action to run and maintain the family with you.
05. Summary
It is really a kind of luck for two people to fall in love together.
Stendhal said, "Everyone has the right to enjoy the happiness of life, and to obtain love is a kind of happiness in life." ”
No matter how boring and boring life is, we must manage our feelings with each other.
Two people manage love together, maintain each other's feelings together, and continue to add joy and happiness to each other's time, and the relationship will become sweeter and sweeter.
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Author: Xia Mo, a cutting-edge emotional tutor, a psychology scholar, a popular emotional writer with more than 1 billion people on the whole network, a happy woman manager, focusing on emotion, sexes, and mother-in-law and daughter-in-law for more than ten years.