Text/Mo Ran
When people reach middle age, they often feel that time is pressing, anxious and confused.
But in fact, if you look at some things and throw away unnecessary burdens, you can still be happy in life.
It is important to trust yourself, not rely on the approval of others, be clear about your life goals, and let go of unimportant people in order to live a relaxed life.
Life is a journey, and if you look at it, nothing will affect you.
This life is not long, and if you want to live as happily and securely as possible, you must learn to throw away these things.
Throw away too much desire
When people reach middle age, they must learn to look down, and they must learn to reconcile with themselves.
Desire is endless, and you can never satisfy it.
For this reason, we must learn to accept reality, accept our own ordinariness and ordinariness, and simplicity is bliss.
Those unrealistic ideas, things that can't be obtained, you have to learn to let go, too many desires will only consume yourself, become a burden, and make yourself unable to move forward and live.
There are still many things to do in life, contentment and happiness, the more you want, the more you may not get it, but you don't want anything anymore, and nothing can affect you.
After letting go of desire, you will find it easier than ever.
When you learn to be content, to be abundant within, everything will become peaceful. People should learn to control their desires and recognize what they want, which is the most important thing to do.
Throw away the past
Many people are prone to living in the past.
In fact, the past has passed, and no matter how good or bad, you can't change anything, and you can't go back. People still have to live in the moment and live well.
Don't be affected by the people and things in the past, you should let go of the things in the past, don't dwell on them, there is no result.
As the saying goes, let go of your thoughts, feel at ease, don't think about anything, everything will develop in the direction you want.
When people reach middle age, they should cherish the current life and not be troubled by the past.
The best way to use the past as an experience to motivate yourself to move forward is the best way.
There is no need to be overly attached to life, and there is not much time worth wasting.
Cherish the present life, keep a good attitude, and everything will get better and better.
Lose meaningless socializing
When people reach middle age, they must know how to give up some unimportant people in order to live a relaxed life.
Many times, you will find that most people are actually passers-by in your life, and there are only a few people who really care about you.
The rest of our lives are too short, we must learn to throw away meaningless people and things, and leave time for people who are worth it, so as to live up to our youth.
But all the people and things that consume you should stop the loss in time.
There is no need to invite so many people into your life, you should spend your time with yourself and the people who love you more than meaningless noise.
Those useless social interactions are actually a waste of time and a waste of life.
When people reach a certain age, they should learn to distinguish and get rid of meaningless things as soon as possible, so that they can return to their lives and live a relaxed life.
Summary:
In the second half of life, it is time to make a break, and only by constantly doing subtraction can you easily go into battle.
Lose too many desires, lose meaningless socialization, throw away the unhappy past, and let go and live for yourself, so as to live up to life.
When you reach the age of knowing your destiny, keep the simplest mentality, deal with life, and throw away some meaningless things, so that you can live a minimalist life and be at ease.
There is only one time in life, time is a trip with no return, what you should do is to grasp it well and live up to yourself.