Text/Mo Ran
There are many ways to love, and someone has said that the best way to love someone is to manage yourself well and give each other a quality lover.
In fact, true love is not desperately good to one person, and the other party will desperately love you.
Good love is mutual achievement, and your contribution is meaningful when it is valuable.
Love is not about one party to give and the other to enjoy, but to manage each other and grow together.
Therefore, the best way to love someone is to do these three things.
Make yourself better
To love someone, you must first make yourself better. Only if you are good enough, you will meet better people.
If you can't do it yourself, it's useless to meet anyone, and the other person won't stay for you.
In fact, this society is very realistic, you will want to meet excellent people, before that, you should become a better version of yourself.
When you are valuable and capable, you have the ability to love someone.
Love should be evenly matched, and only by constantly improving self-worth and improving one's ability can each other match each other.
What keeps love alive is not money or pay, but a new self and a constantly improving self.
Whether male or female, a person who does not see hope and value in you will naturally not stay for you.
If you want to have a good love, you should first make yourself better before you can have the ability to manage the relationship.
Let the other person be their true selves
Loving someone is not blindly giving, but it is also not a blank take, but mutual understanding and tolerance, knowing how to consider each other, and letting each other be themselves.
A person is happiest only when he is himself, and we love someone in order to make them happy.
When two people are together, they are not restraining and kidnapping each other, but helping each other and supporting each other.
Rely on each other and let each other be their true selves, this is probably the meaning of love.
To love someone, you should let go of all defenses, show your truest side, accept them, and encourage them.
Loving someone should be to love each other as they really are, not to ask each other in the name of love, otherwise that kind of love will be too selfish.
If you love someone, you should choose to let each other be yourself and give each other space, so that the love will be more long-lasting and sweet.
Achieve each other and grow together
Good love is not that you stagnate and do everything for him, but that he runs away from you, you go with him, and two people work together to achieve a better self and a better love.
Love is to let two people move forward together, help each other, and in the process, discover their own shortcomings and shortcomings, constantly improve, and become a better person.
If a person gets worse and worse with you, then the relationship is wrong.
Good love is to grow with each other, work together, and become better together.
In this life, it is a kind of fate to be able to meet someone, and we must cherish each other when we are together.
If there is love for each other, we should nourish and achieve each other together, so that this kind of love will last for a long time.
Summary:
Love requires us to spend our mind and energy in order to manage it well.
Loving someone is not selfless giving, self-surrendering posture, and it is not greedy for enjoyment, in the name of love.
It's about making each other better people, influencing and promoting each other, facing and resisting the hardships of life together, and actively creating fun and happiness, so that they can live up to each other.