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All children are the hearts and minds of their parents, and parents would rather be hurt themselves than have their children hurt in the slightest.
However, things in the world are always unpredictable, and it happens from time to time that white-haired people send black-haired people.
God is so ruthless, Shengsheng will tear off this family relationship.
However, in addition to grief, we must have an epiphany, many children leave earlier than their parents, in fact, there is an omen, parents should be careful.
01: Health hazards may have already appeared
Health is the foundation of all human behaviors, and without health, it is equivalent to losing most of its combat effectiveness.
Sometimes, young people are overly pursuing so-called achievements, choosing to temporarily sacrifice their physical health for more precious time.
As a parent, in addition to caring, it is generally a default attitude.
Occasionally, a day or two may not have a major impact on the body, but over time, the hidden danger of overwork will appear to be manifest.
Of course, physical health may be restored, but the tension of the mental state may subconsciously force oneself to go to extremes.
We often see cases of young people committing suicide due to excessive pressure to survive, and many parents do not want to believe that it is a disease, but only think that their children are hypocritical, and ignore their health conditions, and finally regret it.
Therefore, if you don't want your child to go before you, you must pay attention to his physical and mental health.
02: Mood swings, there may be psychological pressure
The lives of young people are either trapped by love or money.
In today's society, the pressure of competition is unprecedentedly huge, and many people are faced with a dilemma.
In this cruel living environment, most young people have to bear pressure from many sides, interpersonal relationships, education, work, and various difficulties are superimposed, making them physically and mentally exhausted, but they are powerless.
If parents have to put more pressure on their children at this time, then their emotions are likely to collapse and there is no room for turnaround.
Especially when there is a problem in the relationship, their mood swings will be very large, and the outbreak of the above psychological pressure is likely to be a disaster for them.
Therefore, parents should pay close attention to their children's emotional changes, give them positive guidance when they show signs of depression or hopelessness, and take them to a professional psychologist if necessary, rather than blindly asking them to be strong.
03: Behavioral changes, may be indifferent to life
I am not afraid of not having dreams in life, but I am afraid of losing my enthusiasm for life.
When a person is in such despair that life and death are meaningless, then his life may stop at any time.
Everyone will have negative and pessimistic emotions, and through this downturn, you will see the light of day.
However, some young people have no expectation of life because they have completely died, and their attitude is very indifferent, and they are not interested in anything, and gradually they will find that there is no difference between life and death.
At this point, what they need is a reason to be able to hold them back in this world, and parents are the best reason.
Therefore, when children have no feelings for anything, as parents, we should ignite the desire in their hearts, let them cherish their lives and see their own value.
Everyone has moments of decadence, and young people are even more likely to lose their desire for life during the period of confusion.
Even if they have come before, even if they have gone through ups and downs, parents cannot appear in front of their children as victors, but must be their listeners and supporters.
Everyone has the right to be sad, parents are the closest people to them, and they need to give care and understanding to rekindle their children's fighting spirit.
Don't let yourself suffer from the pain of the white-haired person sending the black-haired person, it's not the child's cowardice, it's your fault.
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