The "hidden corner" of middle-aged couples: why do most choose to live "abstinence"?
As the years passed, when the two went from the passion of their youth to the calm and plainness of middle age, their lives also underwent subtle changes. The story of Xiao Ming and his wife may be the epitome of the lives of countless middle-aged couples. What they face is not only the traces of time, but also the challenges and tests of life. So, why do many couples live a seemingly "abstinent" life after middle age?
The pressure of life is the primary problem faced by middle-aged couples. As I get older, the pressure of work and family responsibilities come like a tide. As a middle-level manager of the company, Xiao Ming is busy between the office and meetings every day, and he is exhausted when he returns home. As a full-time housewife, my wife is also physically and mentally exhausted when she takes care of her children and housework. In such a state, the intimate time between husband and wife naturally becomes scarce.
The growth of children is also an important factor affecting the life of couples. As children grow older, so do their needs and problems. Xiao Ming and his wife are busy with their children's studies and daily chores almost every night, and rarely have time to sit down and enjoy each other's company. This hectic pace of life has gradually alienated the intimate relationship between husband and wife.
The changes in the body should not be ignored either. As they grew older, the physical functions of Xiao Ming and his wife gradually declined, and the vitality and passion they once had were exhausted over the years. In the face of all kinds of physical discomfort, they may no longer have the heart to pursue the romance and passion of their youth.
More crucially, middle-aged couples often have communication barriers. Their busy lives leave them with little time to sit down and communicate in depth, and each other's inner worlds gradually become strange. This lack of communication makes the distance between husband and wife more and more distant, and the sex life is naturally affected.
However, in the face of these challenges, Xiao Ming and his wife did not choose to give up. They began to try to find a solution to make each other's lives shine again. They planned a weekly "date night" to use to connect, relax, and relive the sweet old days. They also began to pay more attention to each other's communication, whether they were happy or sad, they would confide in each other. Through frank communication, they gradually eliminated the estrangement and misunderstanding in their hearts.
In addition, they are beginning to pay attention to their physical health. With a reasonable diet and proper exercise, they gradually regain their former vitality and self-confidence. This positive change not only makes their bodies healthier, but also improves their sex life.
The "abstinence" life of middle-aged couples may be a helpless choice in life. But as long as we are willing to face and change, we will be able to find ways to make life shine again. The story of Xiao Ming and his wife tells us that no matter how old we are, we should cherish and care for each other, so that love will never fade in the long river of time.
I hope that every middle-aged couple can find inspiration and courage from their stories to face all kinds of challenges and tests in life. Let us work together to make love deeper and more beautiful in the precipitation of the years!
Okay, here's the closing part that I added for you, hopefully to meet your needs:
Dear friends, life is always full of unknowns and challenges, and the "abstinence" life of middle-aged couples is only part of it. We may not be able to escape the passage of time and the pressure of life, but we can choose how to face it and how to change. The story of Xiao Ming and his wife is a mirror that reflects the difficulties that each of us may face. Their stories are also a beacon that illuminates our way forward.
Let's draw strength from the experiences of Xiao Ming and his wife to face the challenges of life bravely. Let us learn to cherish each other, care for each other, and use love and understanding to resolve the contradictions and estrangements in life. Let's strive to maintain a healthy lifestyle that nourishes both body and mind.
Finally, I would like to say that although life is not easy, as long as we have love in our hearts and light in our eyes, we will definitely be able to find our own happiness and satisfaction. Let's work together to make love deeper and better in the long river of years. I hope that every middle-aged couple can find their own happiness and satisfaction like Xiao Ming and his wife, so that the flower of love will always bloom in every corner of life.
Thank you for reading, and I hope this article can give you some inspiration and thoughts. If you have any ideas or suggestions, please leave a message in the comment area. Let's grow together, progress together, and become a better version of ourselves.