Before reading this article, please click "Follow", which is not only convenient for you to discuss and share, but also can bring you a different sense of participation, thank you for your support.
01/
There is such a warm scene in the cartoon "SpongeBob SquarePants", Patrick said:
"The thing I hate the most is the yellow cube creature, the two front teeth, oh, and that stupid tie. But those look good on you, my dear SpongeBob SquarePants. ”
It's very emotional to see this scene, and although it's a cartoon, it always tells adult stories.
SpongeBob is a cube creature, the kind of annoying thing Patrick says, but it's weird, even though SpongeBob is like that, Patrick still likes him.
Friendship is like this, and I think love is like this.
Maybe at first you imagined to find someone who met your own standards, but strangely, when you meet that person, you suddenly find that those qualities that you don't like become very harmonious in him.
Actually, I think this is a heartfelt preference and double standard for the things and people that people like.
It's these traits that I don't like in other people, but when I put them in you, I like them very much, and I don't mind.
The reason is simple, it's because I like you.
Therefore, if a girl really likes you, there will be this preference, and if you don't think you will like it before, after meeting you, it won't count.
For example, a girl said before that she didn't like being short and wanted to find a tall one, but she didn't think it mattered if you were short, because it was you.
A lot of standards are put aside when they meet, because they like the biggest.
The famous writer Sanmao wrote such a story in her book, saying that one day, the man she liked, Jose, asked her a question.
Jose asked Sanmao what kind of person he wanted to marry, and Sanmao said: "Marry a multimillionaire who looks good, and marry a billionaire who doesn't like it."
José: Speaking of which, I still want to marry someone rich. And what if you marry me?
Sanmao: If it's you, as long as it's enough money for food.
Do you eat too much?
Sanmao smiled and said: Not much, not much, you can eat less in the future.
It can be seen that many things are not as important as we think, especially in the eyes of girls who really like you.
A girl who likes you, a girl who really wants to marry you, some of her standards of liking or disliking will fail in you, because love makes her choose you.
Regardless of whether this is right or not, but such a girl is really difficult to meet, she really likes you, so she will give up these original wants.
02/
In addition, I think that if a girl really wants to marry you, she will want to save you money everywhere and support you in doing what you want.
Unnecessary things will want you not to buy indiscriminately, and unnecessary money will want you not to waste it.
When you buy an expensive gift for her, although she will be happy, she will still want to save some for you, because she has long treated everything about you as her own business.
I hope you are doing and I hope you two are always well.
And, even if the gift you give is not expensive, she won't mind. What she wants most is nothing more than an attitude towards you, someone who is good to her, and gifts are only secondary.
It's not that she doesn't want expensive gifts, but she wants you to be more relaxed.
When a girl wants to marry you, she will feel sorry for you, she understands that it is not easy for you, and she knows that your money is not blown by the wind, but also earned by yourself little by little.
I had a friend before, his girlfriend is really good, she thinks about him everywhere, I don't want him to spend lavishly, I want him to spend his money on things that are worthwhile.
But he didn't know how to cherish it at the time, and felt that girls always liked to control him, so he broke up in a fit of anger.
Later, I fell in love a few times, but I met the wrong person, and those girls didn't seriously consider marrying him, so they naturally let him go.
As a result, after a few years of waste, the money was not saved at all, and the love they fell in broke up again.
He began to regret it, and only then did he realize that the girl was the one who really wanted to marry him, but he didn't cherish it and missed it.
However, if you miss it, you won't regret it, and you can only blame yourself for not knowing how to cherish it.
03/
In fact, that's how a lot of people miss out.
When you have it, you don't know how to cherish it, and you regret it when you lose it.
Girls who really want to marry you will be willing to consider things from your standpoint.
She wants to tell you anything she encounters, because she treats you as her closest person, wants to share many things with you as soon as possible, and wants to be responded to by you.
Even if you just reply with a sentence or two, she'll send you another bunch of texts right away.
Although I will be angry at you for being too late or too little to reply, as long as you coax a few casual words, you will be fine immediately.
It's not that she's easy to coax, but she doesn't want you to be difficult and is afraid of losing you.
It's not that she doesn't mind, it's that she thinks you must not mean it.
People who love you will always take the initiative to find various reasons for you to forgive you.
Because I can't bear you and take you to heart, I will be so good to you.
04/
Because I care about you very much, I will want you to be healthy.
Keep an eye on your dynamics and care about your physical health. For example, a good buddy of mine is in love, and his girlfriend is really gentle.
When the two of them are not in a different place, she will regularly buy him good fruits online and send them to him, because she is worried that he will be busy with work and neglect to take care of himself.
In addition, it will also calculate the time, and send another fruit when it is almost finished, which is very intimate.
If a girl wants to marry you, she will be very concerned about your health and really like you, so she is worried that you are not taking care of herself.
Fortunately, this friend of mine is very good at cherishing the person in front of him, and he responded positively to this love, and finally the two of them had a happy ending.
How to put it, I really think that if a person loves someone, he will really think about the other person.
There is a good saying that late-night wine is not as warm as early morning porridge.
Someone who just wants to have fun with you will take you everywhere and take you to drink and have fun until the early hours of the morning.
You think it's love, but it's not.
True love is to urge you to go to bed early and not stay up late to break your body. It's to persuade you to drink less, to get you up for breakfast, and not to starve your stomach.
When a person is truly in love with someone, it is probably that although he is bored when he can't sleep, he will urge you to sleep.
Because I want you to be healthy, and I want you to have the energy to work and live well the next day.
I don't know much about cooking, but I secretly learned how to cook better, because I want you to eat healthy and don't want you to eat takeout all the time.
Love and not love, sincere and insincere, the difference is really big.
When a girl wants to marry you, you can feel her love.
Therefore, when you find that a girl treats you like this, you must know how to cherish her and don't lose someone who treats you like this.