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Some time ago, the Kaifeng Wang Po on the Internet said that the matchmaker's blind date live broadcast was very popular, and many people ran to participate, all wanting to find a favorite person from there and accompany them for a lifetime.
I have a reader friend who also went to the scene, met a man, and added WeChat.
I thought this was a fate, maybe I could go from a friend to a boyfriend, and then into marriage, who knows, after half a month, my heart will be cold.
The man was polite at first, but within two days he started making some weird jokes with her on WeChat, basically all around her figure.
She was disgusted and told the other party not to touch her bottom line, but the other party did something to her when he asked her out to meet.
He said that it is normal to fall in love. But the problem is, they're just ordinary friends.
Later, she gritted her teeth and broke up, she was very angry, and felt that she was unladylike when she met someone, so she found me and told me about it.
I'm also unhappy for her, and I don't think it's worth being angry with this kind of man, because he doesn't mean it. Quite simply, he was impatient with her.
I always feel that if a man is sincere to you, then he will give you enough patience.
Disrespecting you is a sign of impatience, he is anxious to get what he wants, so he is not willing to spend time with you and give you any patience.
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If a person doesn't love you anymore, they can't be patient with you anymore, whether it's a couple or a couple, it's universal.
I once heard a friend tell her cousin's story.
She said that her cousin and her cousin-in-law were in a relationship for two years, married for five years, and finally divorced in the seventh year. Because my cousin-in-law has 1+2.
I asked her, how did your cousin find out?
She said that because her cousin-in-law used to be a very patient person, this patience was vividly reflected in front of her cousin.
Whenever she is, he will patiently listen to her say nonsense that doesn't make much sense, and he will also be very patient to reply to her boring daily sharing.
will patiently wait for her to put on makeup before going out, and will patiently coax her to be happy when she has nightmares.
Later, my cousin-in-law suddenly seemed to be a different person, and he began to dislike his cousin in various ways.
I dislike that the food she makes is not delicious enough, I dislike her makeup skills are too bad, I dislike her distorted figure after giving birth, I dislike her always nagging, and I dislike her for not taking care of children.
My cousin woke up late one night, took out his phone, guessed his lock screen password, and saw his ambiguous chat with the woman.
It turns out that when a person doesn't love you anymore, he will lose patience with you.
If a man really loves you, he will give you patience, and when he doesn't want to waste time, he won't be willing to give you a little patience.
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A senior brother said that he had a quarrel with his wife.
The reason is that because he was in a bad mood, he lost patience at that moment, and in the conversation with his wife, he said very perfunctory words, and the two of them had a conflict.
In hindsight, I feel that I shouldn't be like this, and between husband and wife, we should talk well, especially we should be patient and respond to each other positively.
Later he began to change himself and made a lot of amends.
I think it's great for him to do this, because his love has always been there, and if you love someone, you will have the patience to reflect on yourself, to change yourself, to regain that tenderness.
There is one thing that a man will give to you if he loves you, and that thing is patience.
But also remember that everyone will have moments when they are in a bad mood, and hopefully both of you can be considerate of each other.
When the other party gives you patience, please remember to be more tolerant, no one can be perfect, and everyone will have a not so good existence.
There are no lovers in 100 points, only two people in 50 points.
I hope we can all be more patient with the other half, and don't let the two people who once loved each other so much miss each other because of some small frictions.
Always remember: love is the force of two people, and without either one, love will disappear.