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Adjust your mindset so you don't have to be liked by everyone.
While what I want to share today is how to get more people to like you, I have to say that I don't think there's any way to get everyone to like you.
I mean, no matter how good you are, there will still be people who don't like you.
No matter how hard you try, people who don't like you will still look down on you.
So, what I want to share is actually how to get more people to like you, instead of making everyone like you.
I hope you don't have that kind of mentality of wanting to be liked by everyone.
After all, we have to have the courage to be hated by others.
If you want to be liked by more people, you have to realize that you don't have to be liked by everyone.
I mean, you don't have to please everybody at all.
Pleasing others can only make you disrespectful, and the most important thing in interpersonal communication is not humble or arrogant.
We are friends, not who takes precedence over whom.
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To be liked, you have to have a clean and healthy appearance.
I've always told my friends that if you're not very good-looking, make yourself soul-loving.
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Making yourself stronger and better is an eternal gold medal in communication.
Don't waste your time on meaningless social activities, not to get acquainted with each other, or to meet awesome people a few times, and they will become your friends, your so-called connections.
A real network is someone who can help you, and the reason why others are willing to help you is because you are valuable.
If you are strong and excellent, you will have higher value.
It's realistic, but that's the real world.
Therefore, it is time to spend more time on self-improvement, rather than messing around with various drinking parties all day long, hoping to meet a noble person who will suddenly pull you and let you fly on the branches.
When you get better, more people like you.
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Stick to being yourself and have a temper when others touch your bottom line.
Many people will encounter some very embarrassing jokes, obviously they feel offended, but because they are in the way, they do not lose their temper.
But there are often people who have to make inches, and in the future, they will feel that you have no temper, are easy to bully, and make jokes casually, which will make you more distressed.
And people who are brave enough to express their dissatisfaction and pretend to lose their temper often win the respect of others.
Because this will let the other party know that you are a person with a bottom line, and instead feel that you are more worthy of dating.
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Learn to seek help from others.
Networking is all about helping each other, everyone needs to feel recognized, and your relationship will go further when you look for each other's help and thank each other afterwards.
For example, many girls will ask guys to help solve problems, which is to provide a sense of "I need you" value.
When the other person feels valued in you, he will feel a sense of accomplishment and feel that he is needed.
You don't need to ask the other person to do something hard, you just need to ask the other person to do some small favors, and that's it.
Of course, you can also ask the other person directly what he does best, so that you can quickly create a common topic.
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Don't always ask if the other person is there on social media.
I don't like people who always ask me if I'm not there, because it makes me feel troublesome.
I'm not sure what you're looking for me, but I'd rather you just say it so that I can have a bottom in my heart instead of hesitating to reply to you for a long time.
Most people are like this, they don't need to ask if they are not there, they have something to say, they are straightforward, but they can be more happy to be friends.
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Never speak ill of another person in front of a mutual friend.
There is no such thing as an impermeable wall, and there is a good chance that bad things will be heard.
When the time comes, you won't be able to do anywhere, and everyone will only think that you are a person who likes to chew the root of the tongue, and will no longer be willing to talk to you.
The best principle of communication is not to speak ill of others after others, but to say good things about others after others.
Sincere praise is always more useful than disparagement behind the scenes.
If you want others to like you, learn to be a worthy person first.