This is an epoch-making issue because it means that if feminism takes away the surname, then it means that the whole society will enter a matriarchal society, and the whole society will probably stop.
Some people say that the husband's surname is too poisonous from feudalism, and the marriage law stipulates that children can take either their father's or mother's surname.
Don't say that the things handed down by the ancestors in the past are feudal, and those who talk about feudalism may not understand what feudalism is.
Thousands of years of traditional culture is the essence of our Chinese nation, although there is dross, how can we simply use the word feudal to completely negate it.
This is the inheritance of blood If you want the child to follow the mother's nature, unless it is a bond, the two of you will pay a very big price to make the family admit it, otherwise the identity of the child is too embarrassing. Otherwise, your child will not have a place to bury in a hundred years.
If you want to follow your mother's surname, you can recruit a son-in-law to come to the door, and all the expenses are paid by the woman, and if you marry and give birth to a child with your mother's surname, it is actually cutting the child's growth and hooliganism.
It is understandable that some people have no boys in the family and want to do something new to continue the incense, but if you are a daughter, the incense will be cut off, even if you have the woman's surname, you will look at it differently.
As everyone knows, following the mother to harm the child, will make him live an embarrassing life for the rest of his life, different father's surname must be discriminated against by the clan, and the child goes to the tomb to worship the ancestors, grandpa's family is your root or grandpa's family is your root, do you want to go to your grandfather's family to worship your ancestors when sweeping the tomb of your ancestors?
Will other people's clans accept you, grandfather's clan will not accept you, so that the children will never understand where their ancestors are, and taking their mother's surname is simply harming their own children.
My friend discussed this issue with me and said: My son is looking for a girlfriend, and the child must be born with the father's surname, which is the first criterion that must be used, have you ever thought about it?
If your son's child takes his mother's surname, and your grandson's future child takes his mother's surname, will there still be a traditional family name in the future?
With the mother's surname, the child is a member of the grandfather's family. In rural homes, there are ancestral graves, and the order of burial is row by row.
As a result, the branch after the surname change will not be buried in this ancestral tomb, and if this branch is only a boy, then this row will be broken. That is, it is a desperate family, but it is connected by blood.
After taking the mother's surname, the grandparents became grandparents! The original grandparents were nothing, so the original grandson became a person with a foreign surname, and of course he could not inherit the man's assets.
And the most ridiculous thing about taking the mother's surname is that although they ask the child to have their own surname. But he will never allow his son's grandchildren to have someone else's surname.
Some people say that it is necessary to break the traditions of ancient and modern China and foreign countries and return to the matriarchal line.
In fact, that's okay, first of all, you have to change back to your mother's surname, and your father also changes back to your grandmother's surname, I also think that this is a return to the maternal line, and then your grandchildren will also follow your daughter-in-law's surname, which is the real return to the maternal line.
The daughter-in-law's surname is Zhang, the son's surname is Zhang, the son marries Wang, the grandson's surname is Wang, the grandson marries Li, the great-grandson is surnamed Li, the great-grandson marries Zhao, the great-grandson is surnamed Zhao, Zhang Wang Li Zhao, Zhou Wu Zheng Hao, and there is no root from then on!
Therefore, to put it bluntly, there is no mother's surname, in essence, it is to follow the grandfather's surname, which is equivalent to passing to the grandfather's family as a grandson and inheriting the incense of the grandfather's family.
Since ancient times, it has been common for families without sons to have stepsons, buying children, borrowing children, and even stealing children. Who knows if their bloodline is the bloodline of the original ancestor, and it is not the same as inheriting.
With the mother's surname, you will inherit the incense of the mother's family and inherit the property of the mother's family, and the surname means the inheritance of the incense and property.
Looking at the world, only China in the world allows children to take their mother's surname, and the family name family has indeed changed overnight after thousands of years of human history. The matrilineal society has been around for thousands of years now, but in modern times it has reverted back to surnames.
The pursuit of equality between men and women is the greatest injustice. Besides, in a patriarchal society, equality between men and women is one of the manifestations of social progress, but overemphasizing the fairness of men and women is a false proposition!
The consequence of this is that with the mother's surname, there is only one generation, and the surname is changed from generation to generation, and there is no inheritance of the surname, and even the ancestors of their own ancestors are unknown.
Thousands of years ago, the mother's surname, thousands of years to summarize the father's surname is good, will not be mixed with close relatives, the family is chaotic. After 1 generation, he became a foreigner. There are many contradictions, which affect the growth of children.
It is traditional for patrilineal clans to take their father's surname, and matrilineal clans to follow their mother's surname. Although the law stipulates that you can choose who you want to take your surname, which is the need of the strict family planning policy, it leaves an irreparable sequelae for the child.
The so-called Western civilization marries the daughter-in-law to the family, and the daughter-in-law's surname is also changed to the surname of the husband's family, which is the inheritance of the bloodline, and the daughter-in-law is being married by the Ming media.
The child born is related to motherhood, growing up in the husband's family, the husband's family does not recognize it at all, and the mother's family does not recognize it, and the identity of the child is very embarrassing, wake up young people.
Taking the mother's surname is a harmful son, and it cuts off the son's back road. Will the people on his mother's side accept him? Will the people on his grandfather's side accept him? It must be that both sides will not accept him, and he will be completely alone, without help, and living alone.
For example, my cousin has three brothers, the youngest of whom goes to follow my grandmother's surname, and my grandmother's family has no male children, and when I grow up, I still recognize my father's side.
After the grandmother died, no one else knew, and taking the mother's surname was harming the child, satisfying her curiosity, and it is estimated that her grandchildren would go to the grandmother's surname and she herself would not agree, and women with this idea are very powerful people.
Do not approve of motherhood, this is just a tradition, it doesn't matter if it's good or bad, respect the continuation can, for children not to be unconventional and follow the traditional concept of the public is the best respect and arrangement for them.
Those who insist that their children follow their mother's surname are ostensibly opposing traditional inheritance and clan concepts, and dare to oppose tradition, but in fact they agree with the traditional concept of inheritance and only dislike the inequality between men and women, and do not consider it from the perspective of children, but in fact they are selfish and pedantic.
There is nothing wrong with using the law to comment on things, because this is the most basic understanding, and culture is a kind of inheritance, but there are always people who challenge it.
For example, is it illegal not to go to the grave when the Qingming Festival is approaching? For example, when relatives and elders in the family come, is it illegal not to shout or entertain them warmly? For example, China's wine table culture, and so on; take the United States as an example, a woman marries a man and has to change her surname, which is a kind of culture.
Regardless of the father's surname or the mother's baby, the son should know the grandfather's predecessor and grandfather's predecessor, there should be too many only children, and he must know that the previous generation of parents is also suitable for the growth of the child's generation.
With the father's surname is not feudal, especially for boys, must not follow the mother's surname, although the surname has changed, but the father's surname gene has been inherited by male children and grandchildren, because with the mother's surname for two or three generations.
It is possible to marry a boy with a mother's character and fall in love with a girl with her father's surname, not only incest, but even consanguineous marriage, and the next generation is damaged. These things cannot be understood politically and economically, but must be subordinated to natural science and objective existence.
The social progress of the mother Fu has reached the point where it is a historical choice to focus on the father Fu and can be changed, but to go backwards in history, of course, there is no objection to individual special cases following the mother's surname, but it should not be used as the mainstream.