Most of the time, it is easy for a woman to get lost when she falls in love.
Many women are very emotional, and because of the person they love, they will lower their bottom line of principles again and again, and only ask the other party to love them.
However, unprincipled love often only brings harm because others will not change their nature because of your compromises.
In this complex world, don't expect to be able to change a person. In the adult world, it's more about choice than education. Don't doubt your instincts when you can't feel someone's love, it's likely that the other person doesn't love you.
Don't be stupid, women, treat your man in these 4 ways, then he is most likely just consuming your feelings and energy. For such a relationship, it is wise to withdraw in time.
01
Reluctance to disclose your identity
A man who is willing to disclose your identity is a man who is willing to walk with you into the future.
He doesn't care about other people's eyes and evaluations, he just wants to declare his love for you to the world. He will not hesitate to introduce you to his friends and family, proud of you.
If a man is slow to disclose your identity and is unwilling to acknowledge your relationship in public, it means that he has not yet regarded you as an important presence and does not intend to give your relationship a definite future.
He only treats you as a pastime when he is bored, and there is no responsibility to have someone to accompany him, so why not do it.
For such a man, there is no doubt that he never really wanted to have a result with you.
02
Rarely reach out to you
It is said that how a man loves you, he will contact you.
The man who loves you, even if he doesn't contact you every day, will take the initiative and take the initiative to contact you frequently. A man who doesn't love you, even if you have the cheekiness to take the initiative to contact him, you may not get a response.
A man's love is actually hidden in the connection. Men rarely take the initiative to contact you, most of them are just "entertaining" you. Even if there is an initiative, it is precisely because he is too bored that he suddenly remembers your existence.
This kind of performance of a man has already proved his heart, women don't be stupid and don't deceive. The man who gives your heart to you and will not take the initiative to contact you will only make himself more tormented.
03
I took the initiative to contact you when I asked you for help
Whether a man loves you or entertains you, the purpose of contacting you is very different.
The man who loves you contacts you because he misses you, and he really can't stand the days when he can't see you, so he will contact you frequently, just to convey his thoughts and affection to you.
And the man who entertains you contacts you just because he has something to do with you, not because of love. It is only when he asks you for help that he becomes proactive.
The initiative in this case is actually a kind of use of you. No matter how enthusiastic he is, you shouldn't believe it.
You must know that the man who took the initiative to contact you when he asked you for help was just entertaining you and taking advantage of you, so you should not give him a chance.
04
When I'm with you, I never spend money on you
Material things are not the only measure of love, but at some moments, if a man is not even willing to spend money for you, then what is the point of you being with him?
A man is very rational about love, if you are the woman he loves deeply, then he doesn't need you to open his mouth at all, he can't help but give you and deliver all the good in front of you.
But if he is just playing with your feelings, then you will not receive his contribution at all, and it is impossible for him to spend money for you.
Therefore, when you meet a man who is so picky, don't hesitate to part ways with him.
05
Emotional message
The most taboo in love is self-deception, you tell yourself countless times "he loves you", it is useless, you can only control whether you love or not, as for what the other party thinks, you can't force it!
In love, there are too few rational women, as long as the other party gives a little care, you can rely on this warmth to comfort yourself, so that you can firmly believe that the other party loves you! But this warmth is just a casual action of the other party, and it may even be just a greeting between colleagues in his opinion.
Don't put all your energy and love into it because of the other party's casual ambiguity and concern, you deserve a fiery heart to melt you, not sporadic warmth.
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