Marriage is a practice, it can be the beginning of a love, or it can be the end of a love.
In marriage, many women have such worries: how to make a man keep themselves fresh? should they change their hairstyle frequently, or should they change their clothes frequently? should they often surprise him, or should they often challenge him? should they be coquettish often, or should they be independent often?
In fact, men keep women fresh, not that they want women to keep changing, but that they want women to keep improving.
Men have a natural desire to explore and conquer, and they like challenging and attractive women. If a woman can constantly improve herself and constantly show her strengths and characteristics, then she can make men keep her fresh.
So, how can a woman improve herself? You must know that in marriage, a smart woman learns these 4 "routines", which will make the man always keep you fresh!
01
Don't lack a sense of ritual
Many women will confidently think that marriage is a long-term ticket that will never expire, so after marriage, they ignore the little fun and romance in life.
When a woman changes from sensual to pragmatic, she no longer attaches importance to every anniversary, and every day is just a family and children, lacking spiritual pursuit. Then such a marriage will become the same, and after a long time, there will naturally be no freshness for each other.
Life without a sense of ritual is destined to be dull and boring, and the lack of a sense of ritual will make the marriage gradually become less passionate, thus making the feelings of two people indifferent.
Marriage needs firewood, rice, oil and salt, of course, flowers and surprises, and proper relaxation and appropriate fun after life will make marriage more interesting.
02
Operate your own image
If you want a man to have a constant freshness to you, you must learn to catch his eye.
When life is full of firewood, rice, oil and salt, many women are gradually tortured by life and lose the mood to manage their own image.
When a woman gradually gives up managing her body and image, then this man will gradually lose interest in you.
It is undeniable that a woman who looks beautiful and elegant on the outside can always arouse a man's desire to conquer and can also get more attention.
Women must not feel that after marriage, they can no longer pay attention to their own image, do not wear makeup, do not lose weight, and do not dress up. Compared with the elegance and beauty of the women outside, how can your sloppiness make men interested in you?
03
Learn to praise each other and praise each other's strengths
Praise is the only way to get along with people, and this method is actually very useful when interacting with your lover.
Complimenting each other from time to time can enhance their self-confidence, and at the same time, they can know that your heart is with him through your praise.
There is a trick to how to achieve harmony between husband and wife. As a woman, you must learn to overcome rigidity with softness, and use tactful ways to let the other party understand your mind, rather than blindly forcing the other party.
Praise is actually a good way to express it, by praising a man's strengths and encouraging his actions, it is actually more conducive to getting along with both parties.
04
Invest in yourself and stay independent
Only when a woman becomes better and better, and allows men to constantly refresh their impression of you, will men keep their attention on you.
Women must understand that investing in themselves now is the capital for their own lives. Only when you become excellent and make continuous progress will you be more attractive. The better a woman, the more she can capture a man's heart.
A woman cannot completely entrust herself to a man just because of love. Not being able to be independent will only make men pay less attention to you and think that you are your only support.
Only if you are capable, a man will appreciate you and will keep you fresh. Only when you become excellent will a man have a sense of crisis and be afraid of losing you.
05
Emotional message
Everything in the world has a shelf life, and marriage is no exception
A beautiful woman makes a man pause for a while, while a wise woman makes a man wait for a lifetime. Empower each other and surrender to each other.
If a woman wants to live well in this life, she can't put all the focus on men. Be yourself with your heart.
Only when you yourself live as a beam of light will his gaze stay on you. If you are not good, even if you love him with all your heart, he will not give you a second look.
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